If you comment "marry me" on one of my videos or a post online, I will block you.

@vkc it started well, but escalated to awful very quickly

@gblues explain to me how *literally any of this* "started well."

@addie always

@vkc incredibly gross, sorry this human detritus floats your way

Most men either think this kind of behavior is acceptable, or think it's inevitable. Neither is true.

Dudes: stand up and stop it when you see it.

@vkc "in a non arm candy way". JFC.

Comments like that speak volumes about what the inside of this guy's soul looks like.

@vkc Gross. Adults should know to not behave like this.

@gblues There's absolutely nothing good about any of this, dude.

@vkc 🤮 ew! That’s so gross

@csilverman @vkc what does that even mean? And do I want to know?

@vkc And people wonder why there's so much less good YouTube creators that are women (especially trans folks) than YouTube creators that are men. It's because of nonsense like this. It's sad, really.

@vkc that's just weird. And hard agree on the creepy factor.

@vkc all of this is nasty & awful but that sudo one.... 🤮 So sorry you have to deal with this

@vkc
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@mcbaumwolle Patsy's always right, lol

@gbsills @vkc When someone leaves one of those comments, you can help by replying with "dude you're fucking weird".

Recognize & call out bad behavior when you see it. Not saying anything makes it worse because it teaches those people that they can get away with it. Don't excuse it with "boys will be boys", don't ignore it, don't encourage it.