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This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place.

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  • Annie GA This user is from outside of this forum
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    Annie G
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    This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

    Crickets.

    After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

    @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

    mem_somervilleM Sarah dreams of beansB Raven667R KChernecky For DemocracyP Speed demon πŸ‡ͺπŸ‡Ί πŸ‡³πŸ‡΄πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡¦πŸ‡΅πŸ‡ΈH 20 Replies Last reply
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    • Annie GA Annie G

      This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

      Crickets.

      After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

      @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

      mem_somervilleM This user is from outside of this forum
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      @AnnieG I see you. Hi!

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      • Annie GA Annie G

        This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

        Crickets.

        After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

        @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

        Sarah dreams of beansB This user is from outside of this forum
        Sarah dreams of beansB This user is from outside of this forum
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        @AnnieG Hello! Not sure about the others but I see this one πŸ™‚

        I notice I get more responses to questions when I use hashtags so that more people see them-- maybe that is something to try?

        I pop in here quite intermittently so I definitely miss lots. It means I always appreciate boosts-- I probably missed whatever it is when it was posted

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        • Annie GA Annie G

          This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

          Crickets.

          After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

          @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

          Raven667R This user is from outside of this forum
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          @AnnieG Hi, I see you too, it was boosted to me.

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          • Annie GA Annie G

            This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

            Crickets.

            After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

            @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

            KChernecky For DemocracyP This user is from outside of this forum
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            #5

            @AnnieG @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda I've been here awhile after shutting down my decent-sized Twitter account and I find the same thing. Definitely don't have the same level of conversations and connections here. I probably don't have the hang of it either but I'm hopeful all of us are making a difference by sharing important information.

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            • Annie GA Annie G

              This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

              Crickets.

              After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

              @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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              @AnnieG

              You got boosted by someone I follow. I see you.

              I'm no expert, but my understanding is that "quiet" means your toot is only put in the timeline of those mentioned. If the toot is a reply, it might be visible if I open that specific thread, so long as the toot is public, since I don't follow you.

              @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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              • Annie GA Annie G

                This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                Crickets.

                After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

                salS This user is from outside of this forum
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                @AnnieG That all sounds completely fine, I think sometimes there's just issues with posts actually showing up on other instances, even if they're public and the instances both federate with each other
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                • Annie GA Annie G

                  This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                  Crickets.

                  After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                  @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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                  @AnnieG @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

                  Hi Annie! It's definitely quieter on Mastodon, but the quality is so much better .

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                  • Annie GA Annie G

                    This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                    Crickets.

                    After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                    @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

                    Urban HermitU This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @AnnieG hey!
                    You chose to follow me, usually that follows liking something I said or I ended up on a list somewhere.

                    I looked up your account and saw things that I liked, so I decided to follow you back. I want a chance to see and like or boost things from people who liked my stuff. I follow as many people as possible, so I may not see all conversations everyday, but we are all on the same bus together and sometimes overhear conversations we want to get in on.

                    Read posts, join when you want. 😸

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                      @AnnieG

                      You got boosted by someone I follow. I see you.

                      I'm no expert, but my understanding is that "quiet" means your toot is only put in the timeline of those mentioned. If the toot is a reply, it might be visible if I open that specific thread, so long as the toot is public, since I don't follow you.

                      @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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                      @AnnieG What I wrote there does not jibe with the text on the visibility-button, so I'm probably wrong here. Unless the text on that button is a bit misleading ? @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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                      • Annie GA Annie G

                        This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                        Crickets.

                        After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                        @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

                        lin11cL This user is from outside of this forum
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                        @AnnieG @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda
                        I see this.

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                        • Annie GA Annie G

                          This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                          Crickets.

                          After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                          @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

                          Mary MazzoccoM This user is from outside of this forum
                          Mary MazzoccoM This user is from outside of this forum
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                          @AnnieG 90% of the replies I get are on posts with hashtags, if that helps. The remaining 10% are from mutuals I know outside of Mastodon.

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                          • Urban HermitU Urban Hermit

                            @AnnieG hey!
                            You chose to follow me, usually that follows liking something I said or I ended up on a list somewhere.

                            I looked up your account and saw things that I liked, so I decided to follow you back. I want a chance to see and like or boost things from people who liked my stuff. I follow as many people as possible, so I may not see all conversations everyday, but we are all on the same bus together and sometimes overhear conversations we want to get in on.

                            Read posts, join when you want. 😸

                            Urban HermitU This user is from outside of this forum
                            Urban HermitU This user is from outside of this forum
                            Urban Hermit
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                            #13

                            @AnnieG I also did a courtesy & boosted your comment, because I may not have all the answers you need, and I thought it was important. Other people who follow me will have a chance to see what I boosted in their 'follows feed', which is the first and main one most people look at everyday.

                            I also removed that long list of specific people from my response to you. People may mute conversations that get blasted to their notifications that they didn't chose to start participating in. Or block user.

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                            • mem_somervilleM mem_somerville

                              @AnnieG I see you. Hi!

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                              @mem_somerville
                              Thanks. It feels a little weird to suddenly be getting answers, but it's nice!

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                              • Sarah dreams of beansB Sarah dreams of beans

                                @AnnieG Hello! Not sure about the others but I see this one πŸ™‚

                                I notice I get more responses to questions when I use hashtags so that more people see them-- maybe that is something to try?

                                I pop in here quite intermittently so I definitely miss lots. It means I always appreciate boosts-- I probably missed whatever it is when it was posted

                                Annie GA This user is from outside of this forum
                                Annie GA This user is from outside of this forum
                                Annie G
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                                #15

                                @beandreams thanks, I've wondered about that, but my thoughts seem so random it's hard to pick hashtags πŸ™„

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                                • Annie GA Annie G

                                  This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                                  Crickets.

                                  After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                                  @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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                                  @AnnieG@mementomori.social

                                  ​​ Hello from mk.absturztau.be.
                                  Here runs Sharkey, a fork of Misskey. Different software so I can't answer your main question.
                                  All my accounts are "Follows Require Appoval" too; sensible these days.

                                  I saw your post as a boost from
                                  @garthderby@mstdn.party (hi).

                                  Your instance has one of the most reasonable limited / suspended instance lists i've seen BTW. IE well run.

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                                  • Raven667R Raven667

                                    @AnnieG Hi, I see you too, it was boosted to me.

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                                    @raven667 Ooh, this is almost too much! Thanks for telling me, I'm pretty sure I've never been boosted before. A lot of 'firsts' today...

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                                    • Urban HermitU Urban Hermit

                                      @AnnieG I also did a courtesy & boosted your comment, because I may not have all the answers you need, and I thought it was important. Other people who follow me will have a chance to see what I boosted in their 'follows feed', which is the first and main one most people look at everyday.

                                      I also removed that long list of specific people from my response to you. People may mute conversations that get blasted to their notifications that they didn't chose to start participating in. Or block user.

                                      Urban HermitU This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      Urban Hermit
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                                      @AnnieG oh, and if you don't see much variety to try and get in on, you can look at different feeds. My default is 'follows', but I can go out to 'local' which is everybody on the same server but will include people I don't follow, and 'Global' which includes everybody my server accepts posts from, more of whom I might not be following yet.

                                      The server admins are mostly volunteers & will block some servers for letting hate speech or spam accounts last to long. They deserve an occasion donation.

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                                      • Annie GA Annie G

                                        This is probably a terrible faux pas, and I don't mean to bother everyone, but I clearly still haven't got the hang of this place. Last week I asked: if my default is Quiet public and I have a pretty meager number of followers, then is it redundant - or incestuous, even obnoxious - for me to re-boost their boosted posts (toots?)?

                                        Crickets.

                                        After several months here I'm not sure anything I've tooted is even visible; I've yet to get a single answer or comment on anything that wasn't directly addressed to someone, or a response on another's toot. So I'm firing this at anyone I can think of in the moment... Thanks, sorry to be a noob noodge!

                                        @Nettlephagus @tuban_muzuru @GhostOnTheHalfShell @lin11c @beandreams @roknrol @Yehuda

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                                        @AnnieG
                                        I see this Toot due to a friend boosting it.
                                        AFAIK, quiet public means that it won't be visible to everyone when you share it. So that could be why not many people interact with your toots, because they've not been able to easily see them on their time lines.
                                        @FediTips has a lot of info on their website about all the settings and how the affect your visibility. While I may not have all the answers, I am almost sure that Fedi Tips will have many questions you may have already answered on their site!
                                        Hope this helps. 😊

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                                        • Annie GA Annie G

                                          @beandreams thanks, I've wondered about that, but my thoughts seem so random it's hard to pick hashtags πŸ™„

                                          Sarah dreams of beansB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          Sarah dreams of beans
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                                          @AnnieG Relatable

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