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Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

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  • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

    Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

    Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

    I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

    So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

    Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
    Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
    Lydia Schoch
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    @randahl It’s strange that they’re tagging you directly, though. I think that’s way too much pressure.

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    • Parade du Grotesque 💀P Parade du Grotesque 💀

      @randahl

      It's called 'mutual aid' and it is something accepted on Mastodon.

      It's based on the idea that you may be able to help today, but also that you may need help yourself tomorrow.

      ティージェーグレェT This user is from outside of this forum
      ティージェーグレェT This user is from outside of this forum
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      I boost "mutual aid" toots when I see them.

      Despite having over $12,000 USD in debt and being homeless? I don't beg.

      Many years ago I set up a GoFundMe when things were even more dire; it did not reach anywhere near its goal to get me out of debt then either, but some folks were generous. An old coworker/boss kicked down $1000 which was immensely helpful even though GoFundMe and the check cashing place combined probably devoured > 10% of that.

      Another colleague donated $10,000 to me once, via PayPal, years ago in hopes it would avoid alleviate my debts and it really did! For a time at least. Though, the rigamarole I had to go through with PayPal to actually get access to those funds was extensive.

      I've pretty much given up on asking for financial help online.

      If I had a capitalistic entrepreneurial spirit? I would probably already be running some sort of business selling Thneeds like most people engaged in business? I don't. So I keep applying to jobs and grants and hoping, maybe someday (hasn't happened yet in 50 years as a human incarnated on Earth) I will find this mythical "livable wage" job with no more than a 40 hour work week that so many in unions supposedly fought and died for before my time.

      I also don't beg on the street (most places where I am in California, that is illegal, though it happens all the time anyway. I am never looking to put myself in more legal jeopardy, things are tenuous enough as it is.).

      I think it would be totally reasonable for an ActivityPub/Mastodon/etc. instance provider to make a policy against such things too I guess?

      Problematically, I don't think banning begging is really the solution though.

      Banning the ultra rich via taxation and redistributing their funds into housing, frugivore food forests and other self-sustaining mutually beneficial programs OTOH? Might do wonders!

      Dunno how to effect that level of change though. Doubtlessly, muting or changing federation policies with bits and bytes and such is a lot easier, if less effective.

      CC: @randahl@mastodon.social
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      • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

        Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

        Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

        I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

        So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

        LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
        LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
        Leeloo
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        #29

        @randahl
        You're asking your question as if Mastodon was a centralized social network with one policy.

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        • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

          Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

          Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

          I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

          So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

          billy joe bowers 🗽B This user is from outside of this forum
          billy joe bowers 🗽B This user is from outside of this forum
          billy joe bowers 🗽
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          #30

          @randahl

          I mute them. There is absolutely no way for me to know if they're legit, and it's obvious many of them aren't.

          It's not even like giving money to random people on the street, these could be organized criminals.

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          • Lydia SchochL Lydia Schoch

            @randahl It’s strange that they’re tagging you directly, though. I think that’s way too much pressure.

            Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
            Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
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            #31

            @lydiaschoch they are hoping I will boost their posts, but obviously I would never boost monetary requests from something I cannot vouch for.

            Ever.

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            • LeelooL Leeloo

              @randahl
              You're asking your question as if Mastodon was a centralized social network with one policy.

              Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
              Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
              Randahl Fink
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              #32

              @leeloo if you read the last line again, you will see I am talking about individual servers.

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              • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                thedæmon (Clay Ayers) [he / him]T This user is from outside of this forum
                thedæmon (Clay Ayers) [he / him]T This user is from outside of this forum
                thedæmon (Clay Ayers) [he / him]
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                #33
                I find it weird and just ignore them honestly.
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                • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                  Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                  Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                  I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                  So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                  BSM (sw.s) 🇨🇭B This user is from outside of this forum
                  BSM (sw.s) 🇨🇭B This user is from outside of this forum
                  BSM (sw.s) 🇨🇭
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                  #34

                  @randahl I just block and report them. ✅

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                  • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                    Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                    Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                    I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                    So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                    HikerH This user is from outside of this forum
                    HikerH This user is from outside of this forum
                    Hiker
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                    #35
                    @randahl These accounts are practically all on "mastodon.social" and this monster instance don't have any functioning moderation, so reporting them will not help. The only option is to block them.
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                    • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                      Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                      Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                      I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                      So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                      Furbland's Very Cool Mastodon™G This user is from outside of this forum
                      Furbland's Very Cool Mastodon™G This user is from outside of this forum
                      Furbland's Very Cool Mastodon™
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                      #36

                      @randahl the Fediverse’s #MutualAid network is one of the strongest ones I have ever seen, and it is something to be proud about, not concerned about. remember that not everyone is a (probably quite rich) political journalist like you. there are programs like @aral’s Gaza Verified to ensure the people asking for this stuff are reputable. how about you sit this one out, my guy.

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                      • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                        @leeloo if you read the last line again, you will see I am talking about individual servers.

                        LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
                        LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #37

                        @randahl
                        My point is that you're talking about one policy. The idea is that there will be as many policies as there are servers.

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                        • Lydia SchochL Lydia Schoch

                          @randahl It’s strange that they’re tagging you directly, though. I think that’s way too much pressure.

                          KathmanduK This user is from outside of this forum
                          KathmanduK This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #38

                          @lydiaschoch @randahl

                          The messages that I've seen direct-messaging someone or replying to an un-related post were clearly spam.

                          If you start the 'report and block' process on a message, the software (on my server anyway) shows the account's other recent posts, and asks if they illustrate a pattern of spam. Usually all the account posts is begging messages, across every server it can reach.

                          If it's not a person you've known for some time, block and optionally report; assume they're scammers.

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                          • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                            Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                            Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                            I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                            So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                            Big Kumera EnergyD This user is from outside of this forum
                            Big Kumera EnergyD This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #39

                            @randahl a good resource for understanding mutual aid is the book 'mutual aid' by dean spade which is available in its entirety here:

                            https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/dean-spade-mutual-aid

                            I don't know if you'll have a definitive answer to your question after reading but it might help. I don't have settled thoughts on direct individual requests from internationally distant strangers either.

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                            • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                              Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                              Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                              I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                              So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                              N This user is from outside of this forum
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                              newsgroup
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                              #40

                              @randahl This is a difficult issue, and it really requires thoughtful measures to address it properly. Charity is important and valuable, but there also needs to be a level of responsibility and common sense in how it’s handled.

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