just curious about other ND folks: when you're depressed, does your libido disappear, stay the same, get higher...?

@senanthic non-con kink effectiveness goes up, everything else goes down

@alexhaist yeah, that tracks with mine, although in general my everything goes up.

@senanthic huh, interesting way to retreat into your body. For me it's a way of managing pain--arousal helps. But it's gotta have some emotional resonance.

@alexhaist I can do both: casual meaningless sex and emotional resonance sex. it’s just a way to distract me and stop the spiral, although it doesn’t work when I’m really fucked up.