I'm looking for people who moved to a different country past the age of 45 and found a job there (so not "my company had a branch there and I was transferred" but "I would like to move there and need to find a way") to share their story with me.

Leaf

I need some reassurance that it's not too late for me to do the thing I would like to do but haven't been able to so far 🫠

Bonus points if moving to this country involved having to learn a new language.

Boosting is greatly appreciated, thank you!

Edit: Oh wow, I've already gotten so many replies! Thank you all so very much, I'll respond to every single one asap 🥰

Also: I'm not looking for jobs atm, this post was more about "damn did I wait too long and will moving to another country even still be an option for me or am I too old" and wanting to hear some encouraging stories

Kōtare :tinoflag:

@wanderingleaf just waiting for the job. Any day now!

SleepyCat

i haven’t but my father moved to japan at about age 55. he only stayed for two years but could have stayed longer. he learned some japanese before moving and more after.

Rowan Hagdorn

@wanderingleaf
Hi I did all of that, happy to help answer questions from my perspective.

Wintergreen

@wanderingleaf

I think you'll have a lot more luck by saying what country and what kind of job.

Also, be sure to use country and job hashtags plus the getfedihired hashtag.

I'm over 45 and have been working overseas for a long time, but that doesn't mean we're doing similar things or working in similar places.

Feel free to DM me if you want to pick my brain.

Jenica Lake

@wanderingleaf I was over 40 when I moved from America to Thailand without guaranteed work. Savings helped me get established here, visas were available. Now I'm building a bakery and a music production company with my Thai husband. It's not too late to pivot your focus and find new opportunities! Doors open when you show up to open them, but none of the opportunities I have now were available to me when I was still in America. Major leap of faith required. And hey, if it doesn't work out in a permanent way, it will still give you confidence to find another new way that does work for you.

Mrs H Saxon

@wanderingleaf my brother (55) just moved countries, he managed to get a sponsorship to do a doctorate. So do you have the relevant qualifications to head on to doctorate study? That may be a way in somewhere.

PernilleMsarup

@wanderingleaf @Genstart moved from DE to DK and is learning Danish fast. He’s describing his journey in Danish toots but you probably can get the highlights by translating them. Best of luck with your dream.

Amsterdam Eric

@wanderingleaf It's not too late. I'm 55 now. I sold everything and left America seven years ago with two suitcases and a bicycle. I didn't have a job, but I was able to find one. Mostly, it takes a lot of courage and a little luck. It's risky and scary, sure, but to me absolutely worth it. Now, I live in Europe and speak a new language - also very difficult but doable if you are truly committed. I will die happy knowing I achieved my dream.

GeofCox

@wanderingleaf

Not sure we quite fit the bill - but we did move from the UK to France in my 50s - wife late 40s - and with 3 school-age children. We were in a good position to do this because I was already self-employed and working internationally - so although in a sense my employment changed country, much of it in fact didn't change. My wife started her own business here in France.

There are of course many culture shocks - too many to describe in a social media post - but long story short, after 13 or so years living in France we feel we're better off in almost every respect than we would have been had we remained in the UK.

Virgile Andreani ⏚ 🇵🇸

@wanderingleaf Ohh that sounds like an amazing project, I hope you will be able to do what you want. Good luck!

Leaf

@wanderingleaf i boosted and i am interested in having the same insight. I am thinking of moving, find a different place, maybe involving or not intentional communities.

Scared about ageism (not finding work to sustain myself, not finding friends etc).

And i moved here with 27 and it is still difficult to deal with xenophobia, ranging from mild and well intended condescending, to quite dangerous and disturbing. I am not sure if i can relearn a new coping mechanism to the othering mechanisms of a new place/culture.

Over 50 here. Have articulation pain here and there, and exhaustion, probably covid related. But i dont feel my brain is less flexible or slower. Actually i think i learn faster, if i want, than in my 20s. And more curious and interested. I just dont want to kearn a lof of things i consider bs.

So yeah. I cant control the thing i am scared of. Which is people.

Daniel

@wanderingleaf @KalleWirsch might have some stories to share…

Njord

@wanderingleaf not a perfect match since I'm self employed (so no job search, but I also had to do it with zero outside aid) , but I was.. um...47, when I moved from the US to Cyprus.

It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it, and, honestly, if I'd tried this in my 20s or even my 30s, I'd have had a MUCH harder time dealing with most of the challanges

Pino Carafa

@wanderingleaf While I emigrated twice and even spent 6 months in the USA between two of those, I was not even 30 yet, and while I'm Dutch I already knew English well enough to get by in the UK, the USA and finally in Ireland. I always had a job waiting for me when I moved. So I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to give you much advice relevant to your situation, but I'll wish you the best of luck.

Tiggy

@wanderingleaf

Only for 6 months but I got a job in Geneva on secondment in my 40s.
And I barely spoke any French when I arrived. I loved it.

Would have loved to retire abroad but needed full medical coverage for existing conditions.

krys/midi theriansymbol

@wanderingleaf
also interested!

Alex Psmith

@wanderingleaf I was younger than 45, but moved to different countries twice and found a job. However, I would highly suggest you find work before you move and work on getting your residency. You can always look for new work once you're settled (that's what I did). It's damn difficult to find work without a work sponsor if you're not a resident.

It's absolutely not too late, but it requires a lot of planning.

Genstart🏳️‍🌈

@pms
@wanderingleaf
The short version is, that moving to another country at the age of 58 is the most strenuous and the best thing I ever did.

Agnieszka R. Turczyńska

@wanderingleaf Not a big story, but here it is. In 2019 we (me and my then wife, now ex) have decided to leave UK (also not our home country). And because she had more nichee occupation, we have decided that she will look for the job first, then I will follow. Finally, she has landed a job in NL, I've started looking for something for myself, and here I am.