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  3. People who are "just asking questions" and "just sharing their opinion" that nobody asked for are in the minority here.

People who are "just asking questions" and "just sharing their opinion" that nobody asked for are in the minority here.

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  • Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
    Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
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    People who are "just asking questions" and "just sharing their opinion" that nobody asked for are in the minority here.

    But until reply controls are implemented by more fediverse platforms, they will continue to ruin the experience of people here, and contribute to our community's negative reputation.

    Let's continue to call this stuff out, and when appropriate, also report it.

    #fediverse #SocialMedia #culture #ToxicBehavior

    Stefan BohacekS Tim ChambersT 2 Replies Last reply
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    • Stefan BohacekS Stefan Bohacek

      People who are "just asking questions" and "just sharing their opinion" that nobody asked for are in the minority here.

      But until reply controls are implemented by more fediverse platforms, they will continue to ruin the experience of people here, and contribute to our community's negative reputation.

      Let's continue to call this stuff out, and when appropriate, also report it.

      #fediverse #SocialMedia #culture #ToxicBehavior

      Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
      Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
      Stefan Bohacek
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      If you see someone questioning racism in the fediverse, have them read https://privacy.thenexus.today/start-making-the-fediverse-less-toxic/.

      Some people might think they're "actually helping" by inundating strangers with unwanted opinions and suggestions.

      Have them try https://static.stefanbohacek.com/mansplaining/.

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      • Stefan BohacekS Stefan Bohacek

        If you see someone questioning racism in the fediverse, have them read https://privacy.thenexus.today/start-making-the-fediverse-less-toxic/.

        Some people might think they're "actually helping" by inundating strangers with unwanted opinions and suggestions.

        Have them try https://static.stefanbohacek.com/mansplaining/.

        Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
        Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
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        You might think that bullying individuals into doing things "the right way" works, but it doesn't, not always. Remember to lead by example!

        https://stefanbohacek.online/@stefan/113623004004461223

        https://stefanbohacek.online/@stefan/116008392469985653

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        • Stefan BohacekS Stefan Bohacek

          You might think that bullying individuals into doing things "the right way" works, but it doesn't, not always. Remember to lead by example!

          https://stefanbohacek.online/@stefan/113623004004461223

          https://stefanbohacek.online/@stefan/116008392469985653

          Jorge CandeiasJ This user is from outside of this forum
          Jorge CandeiasJ This user is from outside of this forum
          Jorge Candeias
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          @stefan Instead of "not always" I'd say "hardly ever".

          And the resentment it builds while not working is far more detrimental than the progress it brings in the rare instances when it does work.

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          • Stefan BohacekS Stefan Bohacek

            People who are "just asking questions" and "just sharing their opinion" that nobody asked for are in the minority here.

            But until reply controls are implemented by more fediverse platforms, they will continue to ruin the experience of people here, and contribute to our community's negative reputation.

            Let's continue to call this stuff out, and when appropriate, also report it.

            #fediverse #SocialMedia #culture #ToxicBehavior

            Tim ChambersT This user is from outside of this forum
            Tim ChambersT This user is from outside of this forum
            Tim Chambers
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            @stefan Yes. Also: I think our thread has a “hide comment” is brilliant. The commenter never knows that their comment was hidden, but it is immediately invisible to everyone.

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            • Tim ChambersT Tim Chambers

              @stefan Yes. Also: I think our thread has a “hide comment” is brilliant. The commenter never knows that their comment was hidden, but it is immediately invisible to everyone.

              New Year, New BlueA This user is from outside of this forum
              New Year, New BlueA This user is from outside of this forum
              New Year, New Blue
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              @stefan @tchambers Did you mean to say "Threads"? That does sound like an amazing tool. To block amazing tools. ☺️

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              • Tim ChambersT Tim Chambers

                @stefan Yes. Also: I think our thread has a “hide comment” is brilliant. The commenter never knows that their comment was hidden, but it is immediately invisible to everyone.

                Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
                Stefan BohacekS This user is from outside of this forum
                Stefan Bohacek
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                @tchambers Yes, we definitely need a variety of tools here.

                I keep drawing parallels to blogging. Mastodon is a micro-blogging platform.

                On my blog, I have full control of what appears under my posts. I never once in my life got called out for not having comments enabled.

                Maybe I don't want to deal with spam. Others who are more likely to attract harassment just based on their identity will likely not want to deal with that either.

                I think people are a bit closeminded when it comes to understanding that we all experience the web differently, have different needs and challenges.

                Some people seem to care more about being able to talk back at strangers.

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