hetero adventures: husbands who are anxious when driving their wives' cars, in case they are perceived as gay

i must interact mostly with women and other queers because i always get a dumbfounded moment of culture shock when i encounter these attitudes in the wild.

'they'll think i'm gay' is such an overarching fear with certain kinds of men that it must make their lives miserable. it has to warp you when you're constantly anxious about liking anything too pleasant.