@Randomly_Generated_Name it’s not a “purity test”. Be so fucking for real. The bar is on the god damn floor and any time we ask for anything it’s like “oh my god I can’t believe you expect me to consider that I need to do some learning and growing and even *gasp* changing”. Jesus Christ. There’s no debate here, it’s white people stop being so fucking fragile all the time and take your fucking lumps for once. Tired of kissing ass to try to get you to show up. Get outta here tone policing shit

@Randomly_Generated_Name if white people hate accountability so much that it stands in their way of their solidarity, they weren’t going to be good allies anyways. I’m okay with alienating people who only care about themselves and find the idea of introspection to be a deal breaker

Don’t forget that the whole reason this happened at all is because they are actively hunting brown people in this country. Renee got gunned down standing up against putting brown kids in cages, tearing apart our families, sending us to be tortured in concentration camps. You should’ve been mad the whole fucking time. At least as mad as she was

And if you feel “punished” or like you’re being discouraged by hearing this frustration, that’s on you. Your guilt is your own thing to process. Don’t tell people that they need to swallow their anger with you and flies and honey and all this shit. This is white fragility tone policing bullshit and you should know better by now

You should be mad about what happened to Renee. But people are allowed their frustration that you weren’t this mad about Tamir, and Breonna, and Eric. That the narrative was, “they need to protest the right way” until they got to you and now it’s okay to get violent

If you’re upset and trying to guilt people of color for rightfully pointing out that nobody gave a shit until it happened to a white lady, maybe sit down and shut the fuck up