Getting tired of seeing posts on Mastodon by European men scolding people that they should be more polite, or that if someone categorizes some people as “bad guys” then that makes THEM the bad guys, etc.
Maybe sit down and listen instead, huh? Your privilege is showing.
I don’t know if you noticed, but some people don’t want others to exist, or to exist only in a state of misery and subservience. THESE ARE BAD GUYS. You can’t reason with them, because their position is not one built on logic, but dominance. They don’t deserve politeness, only PUBLIC SHUNNING and RESISTANCE. Being rude to them is good and proper, and healthy for the world.
I swear if I have to read another Dutch man lecture me, a person born in Indonesia—a nation the Dutch colonized and exploited for centuries—about being polite…
https://www.humancode.us/2025/09/25/the-politeness-trap.html