RE: https://mastodon.social/@xabd/116086771809099854

This is one of the most vile and disgusting things I’ve ever seen. Even our death is not respected. Anything to increase revenue, even making zombies of our lives.

Weird questions for the trans folk:

Any of y’all played music in a live band before transition, then stopped playing with others for a while during transition, then went back to it?

Playing music in a band setting is…oddly dysphoric. Like I’m just a regular-ass woman all day, and then I play in a band and suddenly have all this dysphoria-inducing dude feeling.

I mean music was sort of “peak dude act” for me. More even than the military where I just stopped giving a shit if I fit in. It’s like I mapped my dude mask harder in music and wondered if others felt that.

@danirabbit I definitely think we need a lot more “harm reduction” and a lot less “if you are not perfect you are the enemy.”