@lambert didn’t mean a beefy server I just meant nextcloud itself is a big do everything app and last time I used it, wow 5 years ago now in unraid, it was a constant pain with it breaking on upgrades and was super slow.

@samuel that looks nice and simple but im trying to move away from dav and move to jmap servers/clients.

looks like this might be the solution to my problems

https://github.com/stalwartlabs/stalwart

Looks like i can spin it up and use the collaboration side of it for contacts and calendaring and ignore the email side of it.

Was going through some of the #fosdem talks and noticed one on something called #JMAP maintained by #fastmail mainly for managing/syncing contacts and calendars. Is there anything in terms of self hosting a server yet that i can then develop something that will connect to it? I see someone made a nextcloud proxy but i dont really want to spin up a massive nextcloud server just for contacts/calendar. Id like to use it for #mobilelinux so hopefully gnome/kde support it upstream at some point.