@alice I remember this one coworker, Dave, who was so sharp, insightful, etc, but also soft spoken and didn't speak up that often. He had one of those vibes where everybody else could be talking over each other, but all he'd have to do is clear his throat and everyone else would stop their chest pounding and stfu because they knew whatever he was about to say was going to be gold.

I aspire to be like Dave.