Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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@alice I really get that amount of work thing, especially looking at man / woman couplesΒΉ where you can see them side by side, and it is clear that she is putting in work and he really isn't.
ΒΉ new weirdest slash pairing
β΄ I saw that
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@MelissaAtwell what's voted on Fedi stays on Fedi, unfortunately.
@alice Well phooey. Ok my vote is the opposite of what I put
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space Crumbs. I misread "cishet" as "cis". If you'd like the corrected data point, it's "non-cishet masc; no".
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@alice Well phooey. Ok my vote is the opposite of what I put
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space One of my favorite things to get off to when i'm having solo fun is a compilation of me cumming, sometimes on/in a partner but a lot are solo.
Thinking about how good it felt on one hand, and on the other wishing the dick on my screen was there in front of me IRL (but not attached to me) so I could suck it.
Because in my own biased opinion I think I have a pretty good looking dick and I'm sad I'll never get to give it a blowjob and feel it cum in my mouth
Oh, to have a portal gun... lol -
Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice I'm not-cishet femme. I would say that "turned on" might be workable, but usually I'm not turned on by my body and "fascinated and jubilant" would be way more accurate day-to-day.
That said, my relationship with masturbation has improved immensely since transitioning. I think that finding myself attractive plays some role in that, but being more comfortable in my body and how it responds to sexual pleasure plays a much greater role.
I guess I vote "non-cishet femme; no"? But it's a grey area for me.
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@alice@lgbtqia.space One of my favorite things to get off to when i'm having solo fun is a compilation of me cumming, sometimes on/in a partner but a lot are solo.
Thinking about how good it felt on one hand, and on the other wishing the dick on my screen was there in front of me IRL (but not attached to me) so I could suck it.
Because in my own biased opinion I think I have a pretty good looking dick and I'm sad I'll never get to give it a blowjob and feel it cum in my mouth
Oh, to have a portal gun... lol@manunzip I definitely use my own nude gallery for inspiration when I've got the toys out sometimes.
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@alice I'm not-cishet femme. I would say that "turned on" might be workable, but usually I'm not turned on by my body and "fascinated and jubilant" would be way more accurate day-to-day.
That said, my relationship with masturbation has improved immensely since transitioning. I think that finding myself attractive plays some role in that, but being more comfortable in my body and how it responds to sexual pleasure plays a much greater role.
I guess I vote "non-cishet femme; no"? But it's a grey area for me.
@alice I like this post, it's still got me thinking. Like, I wouldn't say that I'm aroused by the idea of "myself," but I am aroused by fantasies which involve femme treatment of my body.
For example, I find arousal in fantasies where someone is caressing my breasts or performing vaginal penetration on me, but those are normal things for a femme allosexual person to be aroused by. Regardless of whether those features are home-grown, store-bought, or hypothetical. It doesn't mean I'm turned on by my body or the concept of having a vagina. It's really that in the fantasy I'm imagining using those parts for sex specifically.
This question feels more nuanced the more I think about it lol
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
yes :3
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@alice I like this post, it's still got me thinking. Like, I wouldn't say that I'm aroused by the idea of "myself," but I am aroused by fantasies which involve femme treatment of my body.
For example, I find arousal in fantasies where someone is caressing my breasts or performing vaginal penetration on me, but those are normal things for a femme allosexual person to be aroused by. Regardless of whether those features are home-grown, store-bought, or hypothetical. It doesn't mean I'm turned on by my body or the concept of having a vagina. It's really that in the fantasy I'm imagining using those parts for sex specifically.
This question feels more nuanced the more I think about it lol
@AcornSquashbuckler I like asking questions that make people examine things more closely
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice Interesting variation is that while i'm largely content with my presentation, i'm also not quite my type.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice that's not a rephrasing though. That's a different question.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice I would never
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice
Ehm... honestly? That is an interesting question. Wow. I think I might not, but now I have to think about why I wouldn't and if I could do anything different to make me more want to fuck myself.That is one kind of self-reflection I want and also don't want to talk to my therapist about.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice as a plural slut, i already fuck myself :3
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice β¦Well, if I were someone else I wouldn't be *me*, would I? It feels a bit like a cop-out answer, but I really can't say what decisions I'd make if I suddenly had a whole different brain chemistry to deal with.
(There's not nearly enough fiction that addresses that sort of thing. I guess neurotypical people don't really think much about how *physical* their brains are? But insofar as our minds are intangible, that "software" is still affected by the "hardware" it runs onβ¦)
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice@lgbtqia.space I've had the fantasy of being able to like magically clone myself and be able to experience both bodies at once and maybe having some sexual fun. Though the fantasy is more about how it would feel rather than an attraction to my own body.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
