Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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@alice I like this post, it's still got me thinking. Like, I wouldn't say that I'm aroused by the idea of "myself," but I am aroused by fantasies which involve femme treatment of my body.
For example, I find arousal in fantasies where someone is caressing my breasts or performing vaginal penetration on me, but those are normal things for a femme allosexual person to be aroused by. Regardless of whether those features are home-grown, store-bought, or hypothetical. It doesn't mean I'm turned on by my body or the concept of having a vagina. It's really that in the fantasy I'm imagining using those parts for sex specifically.
This question feels more nuanced the more I think about it lol
@AcornSquashbuckler I like asking questions that make people examine things more closely
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice Interesting variation is that while i'm largely content with my presentation, i'm also not quite my type.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice that's not a rephrasing though. That's a different question.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice I would never
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice
Ehm... honestly? That is an interesting question. Wow. I think I might not, but now I have to think about why I wouldn't and if I could do anything different to make me more want to fuck myself.That is one kind of self-reflection I want and also don't want to talk to my therapist about.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice as a plural slut, i already fuck myself :3
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice β¦Well, if I were someone else I wouldn't be *me*, would I? It feels a bit like a cop-out answer, but I really can't say what decisions I'd make if I suddenly had a whole different brain chemistry to deal with.
(There's not nearly enough fiction that addresses that sort of thing. I guess neurotypical people don't really think much about how *physical* their brains are? But insofar as our minds are intangible, that "software" is still affected by the "hardware" it runs onβ¦)
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice@lgbtqia.space I've had the fantasy of being able to like magically clone myself and be able to experience both bodies at once and maybe having some sexual fun. Though the fantasy is more about how it would feel rather than an attraction to my own body.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice Hell, no! Iβm deeply surprised anyone ever has. Iβm ugly, (now) tubby, and a lot of work either in a relationship or merely to interest in a hook-up. Who the fuck wants meβ½
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice That's going to be a yes again.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice I'd be more likely to as me probably
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice No I would not. Instead, I'd step into my blue phone booth, and enjoy the bigger inside, by myself, and explore the universe. I'd be Roctor Who. And my Tardis would be green, and look like a portapotty on the outside, as who would wanna go inside that?! lol.
A day, for infinity. Ah Timelord life.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice I'd date myself, I think I'm really attractive. Fuck myself? As myself, maybe; as someone else, no
But also demisexual so -
Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
"Runnin' up that hill,
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice days too short, would like to get to know, form an emotional connection, trust etc. Not sure that kinda works with self? I need the wonder of discovering the other person.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice within a heartbeat. It was weird first when realised but amongst male presenting people, I am my type.
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I voted "I'm nonbinary; yes". Up until a couple years ago I would've answered no.
I've always been bi/pansexual, so other folx gender wasn't really a factor in who I found attractiveΒΉ, but I'd been convinced that most people only liked me for my body, so I had a complicated relationship with itβa combination of living at the gym to make my body more attractive to peopleΒ² and then hiding it under a big hoodie.
But since I've been in healthy relationships and started unlearning toxic things regarding my self-image and presentation, I've started finding my own body attractive for the first time.
@alice yeah. Leaving a toxic relationship does that a person. π₯°
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@alice I really get that amount of work thing, especially looking at man / woman couplesΒΉ where you can see them side by side, and it is clear that she is putting in work and he really isn't.
ΒΉ new weirdest slash pairing
β΄ I saw that
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