Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice No I would not. Instead, I'd step into my blue phone booth, and enjoy the bigger inside, by myself, and explore the universe. I'd be Roctor Who. And my Tardis would be green, and look like a portapotty on the outside, as who would wanna go inside that?! lol.
A day, for infinity. Ah Timelord life.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice I'd date myself, I think I'm really attractive. Fuck myself? As myself, maybe; as someone else, no
But also demisexual so -
Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
"Runnin' up that hill,
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice days too short, would like to get to know, form an emotional connection, trust etc. Not sure that kinda works with self? I need the wonder of discovering the other person.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice within a heartbeat. It was weird first when realised but amongst male presenting people, I am my type.
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I voted "I'm nonbinary; yes". Up until a couple years ago I would've answered no.
I've always been bi/pansexual, so other folx gender wasn't really a factor in who I found attractive¹, but I'd been convinced that most people only liked me for my body, so I had a complicated relationship with it—a combination of living at the gym to make my body more attractive to people² and then hiding it under a big hoodie.
But since I've been in healthy relationships and started unlearning toxic things regarding my self-image and presentation, I've started finding my own body attractive for the first time.
@alice yeah. Leaving a toxic relationship does that a person. 🥰
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@alice I really get that amount of work thing, especially looking at man / woman couples¹ where you can see them side by side, and it is clear that she is putting in work and he really isn't.
¹ new weirdest slash pairing
⁴ I saw that
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice is there a negative scale?
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I voted "I'm nonbinary; yes". Up until a couple years ago I would've answered no.
I've always been bi/pansexual, so other folx gender wasn't really a factor in who I found attractive¹, but I'd been convinced that most people only liked me for my body, so I had a complicated relationship with it—a combination of living at the gym to make my body more attractive to people² and then hiding it under a big hoodie.
But since I've been in healthy relationships and started unlearning toxic things regarding my self-image and presentation, I've started finding my own body attractive for the first time.
@alice about being pan (at least for me) see here: https://lgbtqia.space/@Azzura/116000049325977197
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
Fuck no!
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice uuh i don't think cis is short for cishet. cishet just means cis+hetero soo wouldn't it be less likely for cis people to be attracted to thenselves if they are hetero?
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@alice What this poll really taught me is that there are very few cishet women on Mastodon.
@a_phlaming_phoenix ... who have seen this poll and chose to participate.
Self selection is a real problem in polls.
(You probably knew this ... it's a marker for me to come back to)
CC: @alice
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice@lgbtqia.space It's research, I gotta do a test run.
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice There was a similar question on a purity test when I was a teenager, and everyone was really freaked out by me saying yes
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@alice is there a negative scale?
turned off
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turned off
@amiserabilist @alice Agree with the world on this
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@amiserabilist @alice Agree with the world on this
@Kierkegaanks @amiserabilist @alice
My doppelgänger said he wasn’t interested in me
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice yes.
When I dress as I like I want to be as sexy as possible to the eyes of the others, with my personal taste. And the persons I like to fuck most are the ones that dress like me.
So if I'd be someone else, I would like to be and fuck... me.
(Trying to explain the best what I have in my mind
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice
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@DodoTheDev
Yaaaaaaassss, love hearing this! Learning to like (much less love) your body is hard AF and I'm stoked that you've found someone who made you believe it!@gairdeachas
Thank you. Its a work in progress, but I'm getting there. Although it shouldn't, external validation helps. But I'm also working on my internal self view and its finally starting to take
