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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

    @maj does this help?

    https://mastodon.social/@dahukanna/116030109485498081

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    @evan EXACTLY what I imagined.
    So, the answer would be visible to the intersect between them.
    Of course, how that scales as *those* people reply... there lies the rub.

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    • mhoyeM mhoye

      @evan I think the default presumption that everyone is welcome to become part of any conversation is only that: an unconsidered default assumption inherited from Twitter and specifically from early Twitter's growth-at-any-cost corporate goals. At the very least we should be considering counterbalancing options.

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      @mhoye it's not about everyone having access to every conversation. When I make a friend's-only post on Instagram or Facebook, I expect my friends and family to be able to talk to each other. These conversations are really precious and intimate to me. I would hate to have them attenuate to nothing because no one could see each other's replies.

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      • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

        @mhoye that's a great way to shut down conversations.

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        #144

        @evan @mhoye If someone goes followers-only, I think we can assume they're here to talk to their friends and nobody else.

        I feel like I'm violating their trust if my replies leak out of their containment. Especially when that could potentially drive harassment.

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        • Maj - 🇨🇦M Maj - 🇨🇦

          @evan EXACTLY what I imagined.
          So, the answer would be visible to the intersect between them.
          Of course, how that scales as *those* people reply... there lies the rub.

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          #145

          @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

            @mhoye it's not about everyone having access to every conversation. When I make a friend's-only post on Instagram or Facebook, I expect my friends and family to be able to talk to each other. These conversations are really precious and intimate to me. I would hate to have them attenuate to nothing because no one could see each other's replies.

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            #146

            @evan In that context, I would expect that the venn overlap I'm describing would be quite large, but it certainly seems like something we could actually measure and experiment with if it were presented as an option.

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            • Darcy CasselmanF Darcy Casselman

              @evan @mhoye If someone goes followers-only, I think we can assume they're here to talk to their friends and nobody else.

              I feel like I'm violating their trust if my replies leak out of their containment. Especially when that could potentially drive harassment.

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              @flyingsquirrel @evan I think this is a fair assessment. If the default setting - particularly for somebody with a large number of followers - is that a reply causes a friends-only post to immediately break containment, that makes any reply from anyone who does numbers on here an act of bad faith, intended or not.

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              • mhoyeM mhoye

                @flyingsquirrel @evan I think this is a fair assessment. If the default setting - particularly for somebody with a large number of followers - is that a reply causes a friends-only post to immediately break containment, that makes any reply from anyone who does numbers on here an act of bad faith, intended or not.

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                #148

                @flyingsquirrel @evan Possibly worse: I've got almost 6k followers on here, because I guess I bring some funny now and then.

                But if I have a vulnerable friend On Here, who maybe feels safe with a small number of curated mutuals and posts something friends only, and my reply brings _six thousand randos_ into the mix? Then I ... can't be that person's friend anymore; not on here at least, not responsibly. I can't talk to them at all.

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                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                  @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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                  #149

                  @evan @maj I voted for the broader answer, but I have to admit they the intersectional approach is closer to what happens in real life.

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                  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                    If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                    #EvanPoll #poll

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                    #150

                    @evan But mastodon posts are visible to the public, without a login. Is there anywhere that isn't the case? Everyone who wants to can see all the posts, no? 🤔

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                    • Twobiscuits🚴‍♂️ :graz:T Twobiscuits🚴‍♂️ :graz:

                      @evan But mastodon posts are visible to the public, without a login. Is there anywhere that isn't the case? Everyone who wants to can see all the posts, no? 🤔

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                      #151

                      @twobiscuits @evan
                      You can make posts that are only visible to those mentioned.

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                      • Kari'bokaK Kari'boka

                        @evan Alices followers only. I am tired of fragmented discussions

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                        @kariboka @evan oh is THAT why that happens??

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                        • Twobiscuits🚴‍♂️ :graz:T Twobiscuits🚴‍♂️ :graz:

                          @evan But mastodon posts are visible to the public, without a login. Is there anywhere that isn't the case? Everyone who wants to can see all the posts, no? 🤔

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                          #153

                          @twobiscuits no.

                          https://docs.joinmastodon.org/user/posting/#privacy

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                          • δανσωD δανσω

                            @evan@cosocial.ca if Bob is malicious, he could simply screenshot Alice's post and share it with his followers.

                            With that in mind, it seems reasonable for his reply to be sent to his followers, with an off-by-default checkbox to also forward Alice's message to his followers.

                            People who don't follow Bob probably shouldn't see Bob's reply. But if Alice appreciates it, she could have an option to forward it to her followers (except any who have blocked Bob). Or maybe if she gives it a 👍/⭐ (and it's a non-private message) then it's automatically sent to her followers?

                            It would also make sense for Charlie to have a profile-wide option to not see replies to posts that he can't see. Even if I'm interested in Bob, I don't need to see his reply to an invisible post by Alice.

                            I realise that has some uncomfortable implications, but as you describe, all of the options seem to. That's what makes it a tough question 🤔

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                            @danso @evan

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                            • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                              If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                              #EvanPoll #poll

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                              #155

                              @evan Hm. I chose "other" but now I think what I meant to select was
                              "both Alice's and Bob's followers"

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                              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                #EvanPoll #poll

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                                #156

                                @evan

                                it's about principals

                                i chose "Alice's followers"

                                to me the imperative here is:

                                Alice "owns" their top level post and all replies to it

                                thus Alice's communication style overwhelms the style of anyone who responds to them, in that context

                                this has much further architecture implications than just your question. but for the matter here, all replies to a top level post defer on all communication style questions to style of the author of the top level post

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                                • mhoyeM mhoye

                                  @evan In that context, I would expect that the venn overlap I'm describing would be quite large, but it certainly seems like something we could actually measure and experiment with if it were presented as an option.

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                                  #157

                                  @mhoye @evan

                                  if Bob replies to a post by Alice, they are implictily relinquishing their communication style to the style of Alice, because it is Alice's top level post. Alice "owns" the conversation as top level poster

                                  Bob must consider the implications of that before replying

                                  that solves the problem

                                  the structure of a conversation is beholden to the imperatives of the starter of that conversation. it should not be hijacked

                                  your other concerns are valid

                                  but are overruled in this context

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                                  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                    If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                    #EvanPoll #poll

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                                    #158

                                    @evan

                                    Ideally visibility should be thread scoped with replies able to restrict it but not expand it

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                                    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                      #EvanPoll #poll

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                                      #159

                                      @evan It should be visible only to people who are followers of both, Alice and Bob. Being a follower of just one of them shouldn't be enough.

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                                      • Dawn AhukannaD Dawn Ahukanna

                                        @evan
                                        It should be visible to the original set as Alice shared the post with her followers, not followers of followers (light blue segment of set diagram). Any of Bob’s followers that also follow Alice will see the post and replies anyway. See comments on set diagram and post about the set theory maths/model - https://mastodon.social/@dahukanna/116030140984675453

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                                        @dahukanna @evan

                                        ✅

                                        Alice is the top level poster. it is their conversation. the communication style should flow from that, not be hijacked by someone else's communication style

                                        other people's communication styles matter, but not in this context

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                                        • MooMoo the CatF MooMoo the Cat

                                          @evan Hm. I chose "other" but now I think what I meant to select was
                                          "both Alice's and Bob's followers"

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                                          @flowerpot what would Bob's reply look like to his followers?

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