"An estimated 350,000 people march in #Toronto in support of #Iran #protests, police say"
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having watched how MAGA rose i believe "polite society" "high road" types who react to arguing with trolls with disgust to be part of the problem
blocking doesn't get rid of bigots and vatniks. you just don't see them
they continue to spread their poison
i say fight them
of course that stance isn't for everyone
but no one has the right to look down on us who bait, enrage, then report. and get trolls suspended
you who roll your eyes at us enjoy the fruits of our efforts
@benroyce @kali @ClariNerd the problem with fighting them is nowadays, you don't know if you're wasting your time on an actual, red blooded cunt, or a bot. So first, you need to establish that, which in and of itself is annoying.
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Self-awareness is costly to everyone, or so I think, but it is painful to those who have rejected it altogether as a form of feedback.
exactly so
we all have blind spots, no one is omnipotently self-aware
but there remains a core competency we all must have
or otherwise we're on the road to ignorance and indecency in desperate ego defense, just like MAGA
but also these sort of people who go to a club, enjoy the club, then clutch their pearls in horror when a bouncer has to get get physical with some asshole ruining the vibe of the club
you enjoy the club. so you thank the bouncer
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@benroyce @kali @ClariNerd the problem with fighting them is nowadays, you don't know if you're wasting your time on an actual, red blooded cunt, or a bot. So first, you need to establish that, which in and of itself is annoying.
@macacator @benroyce @kali it's a waste of time and energy. I'd rather focus my time and energy on things like helping my neighbors, volunteering at the soup kitchen, improving the lives of the vulnerable. That sort of thing.
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@macacator @benroyce @kali it's a waste of time and energy. I'd rather focus my time and energy on things like helping my neighbors, volunteering at the soup kitchen, improving the lives of the vulnerable. That sort of thing.
that's a perfectly valid approach
but even in the scenario you describe there will be someone trying to mess with your good efforts, and you need to fight back, or they ruin your efforts
so i'm not asking you to change who you are. i'm asking you to recognize your good efforts are sometimes dependent on behavior you are saying you can't agree with, but in reality you just don't realize sometimes it is necessary to allow you to continue doing good
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exactly so
we all have blind spots, no one is omnipotently self-aware
but there remains a core competency we all must have
or otherwise we're on the road to ignorance and indecency in desperate ego defense, just like MAGA
but also these sort of people who go to a club, enjoy the club, then clutch their pearls in horror when a bouncer has to get get physical with some asshole ruining the vibe of the club
you enjoy the club. so you thank the bouncer
@benroyce @kali @ClariNerd
blindness to our blind spots may be our saving grace. As perhaps it is ignorance toward our own fragility, and proximity to catastrophe, that allows us to have this conversation at this time. -
@benroyce @kali @ClariNerd the problem with fighting them is nowadays, you don't know if you're wasting your time on an actual, red blooded cunt, or a bot. So first, you need to establish that, which in and of itself is annoying.
oh yes
there is always the question:
is this a genuine bigot moron?
or some troll who thinks they are being clever (but isn't)?
but that question doesn't matter. both types of accounts are a problem that needs to be shut down. so maybe your tactics change, but the end goal is the same
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that's a perfectly valid approach
but even in the scenario you describe there will be someone trying to mess with your good efforts, and you need to fight back, or they ruin your efforts
so i'm not asking you to change who you are. i'm asking you to recognize your good efforts are sometimes dependent on behavior you are saying you can't agree with, but in reality you just don't realize sometimes it is necessary to allow you to continue doing good
@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator i know that. for now i just have been taking it out on the people who politically betrayed me. it's not the best approach ever, not gonna lie. my patience is just so razor thin. the wounds will take some time to fully heal.
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@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator i know that. for now i just have been taking it out on the people who politically betrayed me. it's not the best approach ever, not gonna lie. my patience is just so razor thin. the wounds will take some time to fully heal.
everything i am talking about is cold calculation
but if there is real emotional pain for you, then yes, do not do what i am saying
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everything i am talking about is cold calculation
but if there is real emotional pain for you, then yes, do not do what i am saying
@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator those were my e- fiends for 20+ years.

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@benroyce @kali @ClariNerd
blindness to our blind spots may be our saving grace. As perhaps it is ignorance toward our own fragility, and proximity to catastrophe, that allows us to have this conversation at this time.if we couldn't forget our pain, we would all go insane
so sometimes these blind spots are protective, as you say
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@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator those were my e- fiends for 20+ years.

@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator anyway, thank u for what you are all doing to keep this platform safe.
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@benroyce @ClariNerd @macacator anyway, thank u for what you are all doing to keep this platform safe.
don't forget joy
everyone needs joy in their life
seek joy
pain has to be forgotten. it can take time, so work to rush that process