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Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

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  • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

    Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

    Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

    I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

    So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

    Bill JorthW This user is from outside of this forum
    Bill JorthW This user is from outside of this forum
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    #17

    @randahl I ignore the requests. I don't have a way to carefully evaluate the requests and I don't havce the time.

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    • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

      @only_ohm yes.

      I just noticed that there is no policy about this on mastodon.social for instance.

      Only OhmO This user is from outside of this forum
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      #18

      @randahl

      Incidentally, @aral, do you want to weigh in on this? It seems like your bailiwick.

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      • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

        Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

        Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

        I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

        So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

        Parade du Grotesque 💀P This user is from outside of this forum
        Parade du Grotesque 💀P This user is from outside of this forum
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        #19

        @randahl

        It's called 'mutual aid' and it is something accepted on Mastodon.

        It's based on the idea that you may be able to help today, but also that you may need help yourself tomorrow.

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        • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

          Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

          Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

          I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

          So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

          Martin SeegerM This user is from outside of this forum
          Martin SeegerM This user is from outside of this forum
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          #20

          @randahl As long as it doesn’t drown out other content, I would not introduce rules.

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          • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

            Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

            Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

            I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

            So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

            Robin BartonR This user is from outside of this forum
            Robin BartonR This user is from outside of this forum
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            #21

            @randahl I agree that a policy is needed because I get the same thing and I suspect scams are part of this

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            • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

              Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

              Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

              I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

              So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

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              Em & future cats 🇺🇦🐈🏳️‍🌈E This user is from outside of this forum
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              #22

              @randahl I get these messages too, I do feel bad that I can’t tell if they’re legitimate or not. However, I have come to the realization that if it is legitimate they will ask the whole family of mastodon for help with a hashtag, or be a part of an organization as you said. I do think that having this kind of resource is a good thing, but we should treat “direct messages” as potential scams. Obviously, if you know this person irl, then you can always verify that you wanna help and how to do it.

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              • BodhipaksaB Bodhipaksa

                @randahl "Requests for financial assistance" is one way I might put it. Often people in the Fediverse call it mutual aid: so "mutual aid requests" would be another way to put it.

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                #23

                @bodhipaksa I appreciate the suggestion. I was actually editing the post right now, but I ended up cancelling the edit, because I am not sure readers will understand precisely what I mean using your term.

                I need to reflect on this.

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                • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                  Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                  Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                  I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                  So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                  StewartW This user is from outside of this forum
                  StewartW This user is from outside of this forum
                  Stewart
                  wrote last edited by
                  #24

                  @randahl I mute them... which can be time consuming. There's far too many for me to afford supporting these individuals and as you said, it's hard to validate whether they are genuine.

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                  • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                    Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                    Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                    I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                    So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                    LillaVeeL This user is from outside of this forum
                    LillaVeeL This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #25

                    @randahl

                    1. Republicans run fake Palestinian accounts begging for humanitarian donations.

                    2. People with kind hearts fall for it.

                    3. The 2011 NDAA’s indefinite detention clause (which has been renewed every year) is used to incarcerate and enslave or kill them without trial for “funding terrorists.”

                    4. Republicans reach orgasm masturbating to their cruelty and get money for it.

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                    • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                      Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                      Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                      I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                      So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                      Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
                      Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #26

                      @randahl I mute or block accounts who do that because I don’t have extra funds to share, some of them ask far too often (IMO), and I have no way to verify their claims even if I had something to give them.

                      I don’t have an opinion on what Mastodon servers should do about this issue other than that they should be very clear about whether or not it’s allowed.

                      Other than that, I mind my own business. It’s hard to know what’s really happening in other folk’s lives.

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                      • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                        Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                        Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                        I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                        So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                        Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
                        Lydia SchochL This user is from outside of this forum
                        Lydia Schoch
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                        #27

                        @randahl It’s strange that they’re tagging you directly, though. I think that’s way too much pressure.

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                        • Parade du Grotesque 💀P Parade du Grotesque 💀

                          @randahl

                          It's called 'mutual aid' and it is something accepted on Mastodon.

                          It's based on the idea that you may be able to help today, but also that you may need help yourself tomorrow.

                          ティージェーグレェT This user is from outside of this forum
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                          I boost "mutual aid" toots when I see them.

                          Despite having over $12,000 USD in debt and being homeless? I don't beg.

                          Many years ago I set up a GoFundMe when things were even more dire; it did not reach anywhere near its goal to get me out of debt then either, but some folks were generous. An old coworker/boss kicked down $1000 which was immensely helpful even though GoFundMe and the check cashing place combined probably devoured > 10% of that.

                          Another colleague donated $10,000 to me once, via PayPal, years ago in hopes it would avoid alleviate my debts and it really did! For a time at least. Though, the rigamarole I had to go through with PayPal to actually get access to those funds was extensive.

                          I've pretty much given up on asking for financial help online.

                          If I had a capitalistic entrepreneurial spirit? I would probably already be running some sort of business selling Thneeds like most people engaged in business? I don't. So I keep applying to jobs and grants and hoping, maybe someday (hasn't happened yet in 50 years as a human incarnated on Earth) I will find this mythical "livable wage" job with no more than a 40 hour work week that so many in unions supposedly fought and died for before my time.

                          I also don't beg on the street (most places where I am in California, that is illegal, though it happens all the time anyway. I am never looking to put myself in more legal jeopardy, things are tenuous enough as it is.).

                          I think it would be totally reasonable for an ActivityPub/Mastodon/etc. instance provider to make a policy against such things too I guess?

                          Problematically, I don't think banning begging is really the solution though.

                          Banning the ultra rich via taxation and redistributing their funds into housing, frugivore food forests and other self-sustaining mutually beneficial programs OTOH? Might do wonders!

                          Dunno how to effect that level of change though. Doubtlessly, muting or changing federation policies with bits and bytes and such is a lot easier, if less effective.

                          CC: @randahl@mastodon.social
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                          • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                            Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                            Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                            I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                            So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                            LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
                            LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #29

                            @randahl
                            You're asking your question as if Mastodon was a centralized social network with one policy.

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                            • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                              Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                              Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                              I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                              So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                              billy joe bowers 🗽B This user is from outside of this forum
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                              @randahl

                              I mute them. There is absolutely no way for me to know if they're legit, and it's obvious many of them aren't.

                              It's not even like giving money to random people on the street, these could be organized criminals.

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                              • Lydia SchochL Lydia Schoch

                                @randahl It’s strange that they’re tagging you directly, though. I think that’s way too much pressure.

                                Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #31

                                @lydiaschoch they are hoping I will boost their posts, but obviously I would never boost monetary requests from something I cannot vouch for.

                                Ever.

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                                • LeelooL Leeloo

                                  @randahl
                                  You're asking your question as if Mastodon was a centralized social network with one policy.

                                  Randahl FinkR This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #32

                                  @leeloo if you read the last line again, you will see I am talking about individual servers.

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                                  • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                                    Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                                    Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                                    I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                                    So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                                    thedæmon (Clay Ayers) [he / him]T This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #33
                                    I find it weird and just ignore them honestly.
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                                    • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                                      Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                                      Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                                      I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                                      So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                                      BSM (sw.s) 🇨🇭B This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #34

                                      @randahl I just block and report them. ✅

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                                      • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                                        Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                                        Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                                        I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                                        So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                                        HikerH This user is from outside of this forum
                                        HikerH This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        @randahl These accounts are practically all on "mastodon.social" and this monster instance don't have any functioning moderation, so reporting them will not help. The only option is to block them.
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                                        • Randahl FinkR Randahl Fink

                                          Is it okay to beg for money on Mastodon?

                                          Every week I see accounts asking for money, often tagging me or others directly.

                                          I support recognized aid organisations, but these direct requests make me concerned, because as a Mastodon user I have no way of verifying if the requests are legitimate, or some nefarious person is pretending to be a person in need.

                                          So my question is, should Mastodon servers have a policy about begging, and if so, what should the policy be?

                                          Furbland's Very Cool Mastodon™G This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          #36

                                          @randahl the Fediverse’s #MutualAid network is one of the strongest ones I have ever seen, and it is something to be proud about, not concerned about. remember that not everyone is a (probably quite rich) political journalist like you. there are programs like @aral’s Gaza Verified to ensure the people asking for this stuff are reputable. how about you sit this one out, my guy.

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