Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice I am very, very proud of how I look and how I present myself. I love my body VERY much. But I'm not turned on by my own body.
Prior to transition, the IDEA of being a girl would cause me arousal. But that went away after transition.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice What this poll really taught me is that there are very few cishet women on Mastodon.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice
Bi male.Only recently. I found someone who made me believe I was good looking. Its the first time in 41 years. Sadly, I don't do the same for her, but I'm working on it.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space
I'm going to say that I do. Maybe not as much as before but... there's something that was so incredibly validating and affirming. -
Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice No. And I'm baffled by claims that 'dad bod' is a thing people are attracted to.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice I'm a person with boobs and I have the male gaze, so yes.
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@catmisgivings can I get the tl;dr like hour-long version?
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@Energetic_Nova "cishet" is a package deal (for this poll), so the non-cishet "yes" choice aligning most closely with your gender.
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@alice there probably was at some point that i did but after all the comments ive gotten over the decades, there isnt one thing i like about how i look and i kinda wish i actually was a giant floating autistic blob
@emily_rugburn π«π«π«
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@catmisgivings can I get the tl;dr like hour-long version?
@roknrol @alice 1. Dads are hot. Like, when they are doing dad things especially 2. Dads on the earthly plane have bods 3. The classic "dad bod" guy is like, wearing a witty band t-shirt and has a little bit of a beer gut and probably had a gym membership but like 6 mos ago? And I love bands and beer and I have an on-again off-again relationship with the gym so we have so much in common actually
Sigh
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice "I'm ace spec; what even is 'turned on'?"
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@alice "I'm ace spec; what even is 'turned on'?"
@anyia I think you could answer "non-cishet femme; no" in that case, but I'm not koalalified to answer your actual question.
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@roknrol As a card-carrying, decades-long practicing homo I can 100% confirm that there are many many gay men who are very into "dad bods". Indeed, I'd assert that the venn diagram of "dad bods" and "gay bears" has significant overlap.
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@gairdeachas unrelated to anyone's interest in dad bods, we should get together for drinks again
I don't get to hang out with nearly enough card-carrying homos
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@alice
Bi male.Only recently. I found someone who made me believe I was good looking. Its the first time in 41 years. Sadly, I don't do the same for her, but I'm working on it.
@DodoTheDev
Yaaaaaaassss, love hearing this! Learning to like (much less love) your body is hard AF and I'm stoked that you've found someone who made you believe it!
