Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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@alice hmm, I'm always curious about people's pan footnotes. A lot about pansexuality resonates with me, except for the empirical fact that I am almost (but not absolutely) never attracted to men.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice More indifferent than anything.
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@alice hmm, I'm always curious about people's pan footnotes. A lot about pansexuality resonates with me, except for the empirical fact that I am almost (but not absolutely) never attracted to men.
@eruonna so, when I say "other folx gender wasn't really a factor in who I found attractiveΒΉ", the ΒΉ stands for "it's more complicated than that", specifically:
- body hair is a huge turnoff for me, and (most) men tend to let that stuff grow wild
- "boy-smellΒ²" is another big turnoff for me, and surprise, it's significantly more common on boys
- in general, men need to put in a similar amount of workΒ³ as women for me to find them attractiveSo it shakes out that I end up being hot for way more women and other femme-presenting folx than I do men or masc-presenting folx, just by merit of two of my biggest turn-offs happening to be *way* more common in men (gay men offset this math somewhat, but they tend to be gay, so
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οΈ).Β² that musky gym sock smell. I know some folx love itβhell, they make like a hundred 12-in-1 body products to make men specifically smell *more* like that, so someone must think it smells good. Give me vanillas, strawberries, brass, lock lubricant, etc *anyβ΄* day.
Β³ most don't.
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Heh, forgot the footnotes.
@alice Like any important scientific article
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@eruonna so, when I say "other folx gender wasn't really a factor in who I found attractiveΒΉ", the ΒΉ stands for "it's more complicated than that", specifically:
- body hair is a huge turnoff for me, and (most) men tend to let that stuff grow wild
- "boy-smellΒ²" is another big turnoff for me, and surprise, it's significantly more common on boys
- in general, men need to put in a similar amount of workΒ³ as women for me to find them attractiveSo it shakes out that I end up being hot for way more women and other femme-presenting folx than I do men or masc-presenting folx, just by merit of two of my biggest turn-offs happening to be *way* more common in men (gay men offset this math somewhat, but they tend to be gay, so
βοΈ).Β² that musky gym sock smell. I know some folx love itβhell, they make like a hundred 12-in-1 body products to make men specifically smell *more* like that, so someone must think it smells good. Give me vanillas, strawberries, brass, lock lubricant, etc *anyβ΄* day.
Β³ most don't.
@alice I really get that amount of work thing, especially looking at man / woman couplesΒΉ where you can see them side by side, and it is clear that she is putting in work and he really isn't.
ΒΉ new weirdest slash pairing
β΄ I saw that
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice given ive gone through my camera roll and gone "oh i don't remember meeting this pretty woman" before realizing it's. that's me, yeah,. you can guess my vote
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice
I mean, it might change once I have proper tits to grope... -
Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice fascinating distribution. I've answered honestly and am surprised at the low turnout (turn on?) in my selected demographic.
A 41% combined yes overall (as of when this was written) is also intriguing and makes me wonder what this actually means.
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@alice I really get that amount of work thing, especially looking at man / woman couplesΒΉ where you can see them side by side, and it is clear that she is putting in work and he really isn't.
ΒΉ new weirdest slash pairing
β΄ I saw that
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@MelissaAtwell what's voted on Fedi stays on Fedi, unfortunately.
@alice Well phooey. Ok my vote is the opposite of what I put
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space Crumbs. I misread "cishet" as "cis". If you'd like the corrected data point, it's "non-cishet masc; no".
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@alice Well phooey. Ok my vote is the opposite of what I put
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space One of my favorite things to get off to when i'm having solo fun is a compilation of me cumming, sometimes on/in a partner but a lot are solo.
Thinking about how good it felt on one hand, and on the other wishing the dick on my screen was there in front of me IRL (but not attached to me) so I could suck it.
Because in my own biased opinion I think I have a pretty good looking dick and I'm sad I'll never get to give it a blowjob and feel it cum in my mouth
Oh, to have a portal gun... lol -
Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice I'm not-cishet femme. I would say that "turned on" might be workable, but usually I'm not turned on by my body and "fascinated and jubilant" would be way more accurate day-to-day.
That said, my relationship with masturbation has improved immensely since transitioning. I think that finding myself attractive plays some role in that, but being more comfortable in my body and how it responds to sexual pleasure plays a much greater role.
I guess I vote "non-cishet femme; no"? But it's a grey area for me.
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@alice@lgbtqia.space One of my favorite things to get off to when i'm having solo fun is a compilation of me cumming, sometimes on/in a partner but a lot are solo.
Thinking about how good it felt on one hand, and on the other wishing the dick on my screen was there in front of me IRL (but not attached to me) so I could suck it.
Because in my own biased opinion I think I have a pretty good looking dick and I'm sad I'll never get to give it a blowjob and feel it cum in my mouth
Oh, to have a portal gun... lol@manunzip I definitely use my own nude gallery for inspiration when I've got the toys out sometimes.
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@alice I'm not-cishet femme. I would say that "turned on" might be workable, but usually I'm not turned on by my body and "fascinated and jubilant" would be way more accurate day-to-day.
That said, my relationship with masturbation has improved immensely since transitioning. I think that finding myself attractive plays some role in that, but being more comfortable in my body and how it responds to sexual pleasure plays a much greater role.
I guess I vote "non-cishet femme; no"? But it's a grey area for me.
@alice I like this post, it's still got me thinking. Like, I wouldn't say that I'm aroused by the idea of "myself," but I am aroused by fantasies which involve femme treatment of my body.
For example, I find arousal in fantasies where someone is caressing my breasts or performing vaginal penetration on me, but those are normal things for a femme allosexual person to be aroused by. Regardless of whether those features are home-grown, store-bought, or hypothetical. It doesn't mean I'm turned on by my body or the concept of having a vagina. It's really that in the fantasy I'm imagining using those parts for sex specifically.
This question feels more nuanced the more I think about it lol
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
yes :3
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@alice I like this post, it's still got me thinking. Like, I wouldn't say that I'm aroused by the idea of "myself," but I am aroused by fantasies which involve femme treatment of my body.
For example, I find arousal in fantasies where someone is caressing my breasts or performing vaginal penetration on me, but those are normal things for a femme allosexual person to be aroused by. Regardless of whether those features are home-grown, store-bought, or hypothetical. It doesn't mean I'm turned on by my body or the concept of having a vagina. It's really that in the fantasy I'm imagining using those parts for sex specifically.
This question feels more nuanced the more I think about it lol
@AcornSquashbuckler I like asking questions that make people examine things more closely
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice Interesting variation is that while i'm largely content with my presentation, i'm also not quite my type.
