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  • The Penguin of EvilE The Penguin of Evil

    @neil Sadly not just social media. Same is as true in the press (where female chancellors get mocked as Rachel from accounts, or for their outfits) - I'm not sure social media is the source of the problem somehow.

    Likewise I think a social media ban is a bad idea (and a disaster for disabled kids) - we need to actually fix social media, which means like a pub some people need to be shown the door and told not to come back

    woe2youW This user is from outside of this forum
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    @etchedpixels @neil "Rachel from Accounts" is a riff on the Aussies' "Scotty from Marketing".

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    • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

      > I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

      The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

      I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

      https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

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      @neil we've got to find a way to make society in general consider women as people rather than as objects.

      https://toot.wales/@HarriettMB/116119130512351083

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      • The Penguin of EvilE The Penguin of Evil

        @neil Sadly not just social media. Same is as true in the press (where female chancellors get mocked as Rachel from accounts, or for their outfits) - I'm not sure social media is the source of the problem somehow.

        Likewise I think a social media ban is a bad idea (and a disaster for disabled kids) - we need to actually fix social media, which means like a pub some people need to be shown the door and told not to come back

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        @etchedpixels @neil while I agree fully with the sentiment, I've shied away from pub comparisons due to the awkward fact that unaccompanied minors are banned from them.

        It's probably closer to banning children from the park because there might be a bad man lurking in the bushes...

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        • woe2youW woe2you

          @etchedpixels @neil "Rachel from Accounts" is a riff on the Aussies' "Scotty from Marketing".

          The Penguin of EvilE This user is from outside of this forum
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          @woe2you @neil But that kind of attack and belittling is focused almost entirely on women in positions of power, as is body shaming and poking fun at their outfits.

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          • The Penguin of EvilE The Penguin of Evil

            @woe2you @neil But that kind of attack and belittling is focused almost entirely on women in positions of power, as is body shaming and poking fun at their outfits.

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            @etchedpixels @woe2you

            Body shaming is very much common place, directed towards many women, not just something directed to women in positions of power!

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            • ahnlakA ahnlak

              @etchedpixels @neil while I agree fully with the sentiment, I've shied away from pub comparisons due to the awkward fact that unaccompanied minors are banned from them.

              It's probably closer to banning children from the park because there might be a bad man lurking in the bushes...

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              @ahnlak @neil Looking at current social media behaviour in English language at least I fear it's more right now like banning unattended children from the park because the park is on Epstein's Island.

              The park needs fixing.

              Very good point on the pub analogy

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              • The Penguin of EvilE The Penguin of Evil

                @ahnlak @neil Looking at current social media behaviour in English language at least I fear it's more right now like banning unattended children from the park because the park is on Epstein's Island.

                The park needs fixing.

                Very good point on the pub analogy

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                @etchedpixels @neil for sure, it's that really dodgy park with all the broken bottles and needles - I'm not saying the park isn't a problem, just that banning minors rather misses the problem.

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                • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                  > I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

                  The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

                  I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

                  https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

                  agnesA This user is from outside of this forum
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                  @neil

                  Social media is dangerous so ban children rather than blame the companies (and their founders) for dangerous products. Same tactic as plastic is dangerous so shame individuals into recycling rather than blame the plastic makers. Billionaires are good at making "consumers" responsible for their bad products.

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                  • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                    > I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

                    The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

                    I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

                    https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

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                    @neil Yeah, only adult women should be subjected to the vile misogyny. 🧐🥴

                    (It's a problem, no argument; I fail to see how isolating minors from communities they can find online is necessarily the answer, though.)

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                    • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                      > I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

                      The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

                      I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

                      https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

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                      @neil Name and shame, I say - the problem isn't that they're young (I remember old warehouse guys throwing hissies about losing their girlie pics in the locker room decades ago). It's that they suffer no consequences.

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                      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                        > I am a 15-year-old girl. Let me show you the vile misogyny that confronts me on social media every day

                        The examples included here are horrible. Not just the sex-shaming, but that too.

                        I'm far from convinced that a social media ban is the answer, but the comment is still well worth reading - especially by men.

                        https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

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                        @neil as long as there are people making misogyny profitable, this is only going to get worse. The platforms are profiting and face no real consequences for all their misdeeds, so we end up with this shitty reality. The social media ban was never about trying to fix any of the causes of the damage. It's all total bullshit and it makes me rage. They're doubling down on exploiting our kids and charging us extra for it.

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