Why unexpected phone calls are so stressing for me, example 2341. It was short and quick, thankfully I already had the info so for this one I check only the first three of the list below…
For context: I just got a reminder phone call for a medical appointment next week. Yes, I know, I could have let it to the voice mail. But, I had so many phone calls related to medical appointments and voice mails (so I had to call to back) the weeks before Christmas that now I answer to any phone call because it makes things “easier“... 
Why Your Autistic Loved One Doesn’t Pick Up the Phone
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