@gabriel @alice I'm on the reverse where your stated perspective feels foreign.

Just for me at least I would never _expect_ someone to want to be with me, regardless of how I feel about myself.

@Bredroll Is AI the Ring of Power? WTF is driving these people

@lianna @alice Okay, so someone posted something they do that vibes to you initially as insensitive.

I would recommend when you come across something like that, on here or in real life, that you give the person in question the benefit of the doubt at first and ask a follow up question instead of jumping to "you're a dick who hurts people".

It doesn't mean that first impression will always be wrong, but I think it's worth it for us to try to understand each other first and judge second.