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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • ZenHeathen :canada:Z ZenHeathen :canada:

    @raymaccarthy I think we're talking about different things. I'm saying Bob should be able to show Bob's own post to whomever he wishes (short, of course, from anyone who has blocked or muted Bob, or filtered out a word in Bob's post, etc. etc.). Are you saying that, once Bob posts on Alice's thread, that action makes Alice's thread visible to others? That's not my understanding, and it shouldn't be that way. @evan

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    @ZenHeathen @evan
    Bob ethically shouldn't be showing his reply to a limited audience thread to all his followers. He can trivially do it by simply a copy / paste anyway.

    In the real world in Mastodon all privacy features are flawed. Assume everyone sees everything.

    "Private" is misnamed on Mastodon. There are no private or limited messages.

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    • Ray McCarthyR Ray McCarthy

      @ZenHeathen @evan
      Bob ethically shouldn't be showing his reply to a limited audience thread to all his followers. He can trivially do it by simply a copy / paste anyway.

      In the real world in Mastodon all privacy features are flawed. Assume everyone sees everything.

      "Private" is misnamed on Mastodon. There are no private or limited messages.

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      #190

      @raymaccarthy I'm sure I've replied to "followers only" things from time to time, *guaranteed* without knowing that they were, because unless I'm digging, and reminded for some reason to do so, I don't even remember where in the interface that I would find that. And I've never posted anything to my followers only.

      But if what you describe is how it works, then... No one should ever reply to anything posts "followers only", ever. Because as soon as they do, it moves beyond what the original posted intended. Like, there's no way to even participate in good faith in that conversation, you can't possibly say anything at all. If anything, the setting should be between Normal and Read-Only. @evan

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      • ZenHeathen :canada:Z ZenHeathen :canada:

        @raymaccarthy I'm sure I've replied to "followers only" things from time to time, *guaranteed* without knowing that they were, because unless I'm digging, and reminded for some reason to do so, I don't even remember where in the interface that I would find that. And I've never posted anything to my followers only.

        But if what you describe is how it works, then... No one should ever reply to anything posts "followers only", ever. Because as soon as they do, it moves beyond what the original posted intended. Like, there's no way to even participate in good faith in that conversation, you can't possibly say anything at all. If anything, the setting should be between Normal and Read-Only. @evan

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        #191

        @ZenHeathen @evan
        I don't know what the "correct" answer should be for here, nor do I quite understand it.
        I do know that if either party puts the actual mastodon ID of someone anywhere in the supposed private 1:1 message, that person gets it too. Is that by design or a mistake?
        Certainly the actual real Mastodon isn't remotely like using groups on Viber (A Japanese owned app like Skype used to be before MS broke it, except better). Viber is on all platforms as a program or app & is encrypted.

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        • Ray McCarthyR Ray McCarthy

          @ZenHeathen @evan
          I don't know what the "correct" answer should be for here, nor do I quite understand it.
          I do know that if either party puts the actual mastodon ID of someone anywhere in the supposed private 1:1 message, that person gets it too. Is that by design or a mistake?
          Certainly the actual real Mastodon isn't remotely like using groups on Viber (A Japanese owned app like Skype used to be before MS broke it, except better). Viber is on all platforms as a program or app & is encrypted.

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          #192

          @raymaccarthy Whoa, "private messages" is a completely different animal, though I agree, they're crap here, and misleadingly named. But I thought we were talking about a regular post, but with the selector moved to "followers only" instead of "public". That's not the same thing. Maybe we should let it lie, before further misunderstandings. @evan

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          • ZenHeathen :canada:Z ZenHeathen :canada:

            @raymaccarthy Whoa, "private messages" is a completely different animal, though I agree, they're crap here, and misleadingly named. But I thought we were talking about a regular post, but with the selector moved to "followers only" instead of "public". That's not the same thing. Maybe we should let it lie, before further misunderstandings. @evan

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            #193

            @ZenHeathen @evan
            Yes.
            I think what is illustrated is that people might misunderstand what any of the filters do and have different opinions on what they think ought to happen.

            Still, it's far better than Facebook, X-Twitter, LinkedIn, TikTok or even Bluesky.

            If someone wants a private group they should set it up on Viber. "Followers only" here is almost pointless.

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            • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

              If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

              #EvanPoll #poll

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              #194

              @evan Only Alice's followers. Those of Bob's followers who are not Alice's followers cannot see the context Bob is replying to. Reading answers without any context introduces a lot of noise in the channel (ambiguity specifically). Ambiguity also has the tendency to trigger a lot of anxious questions in people who read them (and sometimes then reply to ask for the context). For me, these kind of interactions lowers the quality of my network.

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              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                #EvanPoll #poll

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                #195

                @evan
                Either Alice's only or intersection of Bob and Alice. There's a reason it wasn't visible to all of Bob's at the start so audience shouldn't be enlarged without Alice giving permission.

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                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                  If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                  #EvanPoll #poll

                  oriO This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #196
                  The intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.
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                  • oriO ori
                    The intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.
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                    #197

                    @ori so as the conversation continues, fewer and fewer people can see what's being said?

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                    • Jesse McClure :progress_pride:J Jesse McClure :progress_pride:

                      @evan

                      Forgive me if I'm missing something here, but I can't quite square the original poll options with "of course it should be defined by Bob's settings".

                      My thought was that and / all settings that Bob would ever have for his own posts should be available to him, and the default should be whatever his default normally is.

                      Essentially, (my view is) the fact that Bob's post is in reply to something else is beside the point: Bob's post is Bob's post, just like any other he'd make.

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                      #198

                      @jmcclure you're forgiven!

                      The poll is not mandatory, so please feel free to spend your one wild and precious life doing something different.

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                      • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                        @ori so as the conversation continues, fewer and fewer people can see what's being said?

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                        wrote last edited by
                        #199
                        Yes. Either you do that or you ignore someone's privacy settings.
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                        • oriO ori
                          Yes. Either you do that or you ignore someone's privacy settings.
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                          #200

                          @ori *or* you give Bob an option to reply to Alice's followers.

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                          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                            @ori *or* you give Bob an option to reply to Alice's followers.

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                            #201
                            Yes. That's equivalent to Alice setting their post followers only, and Bob setting their post public, but less confusing to the user.

                            (Edit: realized you hadn't said what Bob's visibility was set to. Anyway: UI quibbles aside, the answer is that you intersect the people who are able to view)
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                            • oriO ori
                              Yes. That's equivalent to Alice setting their post followers only, and Bob setting their post public, but less confusing to the user.

                              (Edit: realized you hadn't said what Bob's visibility was set to. Anyway: UI quibbles aside, the answer is that you intersect the people who are able to view)
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                              #202

                              @ori

                              I don't think it breaks expectations.

                              It's also the way most social networks work. If the OP posts privately, all the comments and replies to comments are visible to *all* the OP's followers.

                              This is how Facebook, Instagram, and X all work.

                              They let you have private conversations with people that matter to you. It's one of the best parts of those platforms.

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                              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                @ori

                                I don't think it breaks expectations.

                                It's also the way most social networks work. If the OP posts privately, all the comments and replies to comments are visible to *all* the OP's followers.

                                This is how Facebook, Instagram, and X all work.

                                They let you have private conversations with people that matter to you. It's one of the best parts of those platforms.

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                                #203
                                Well, you asked what expectations were, and I told you. They're not what you seem to be proposing. Not sure what else to say.
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                                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                  If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                  #EvanPoll #poll

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                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #204

                                  @evan what I'd prefer to make are mutuals-only posts

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                                  • oriO ori
                                    Well, you asked what expectations were, and I told you. They're not what you seem to be proposing. Not sure what else to say.
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                                    #205

                                    @ori cool, thanks for your input. I'm not proposing anything, I just think your expectations are really bad for conversations.

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                                    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                      #EvanPoll #poll

                                      Doug WadeD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #206

                                      @evan I voted “Alice’s followers”, but if Bob marks their reply followers-only, it should be only the intersection of Alice and Bob’s followers.

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                                      • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                        @ori cool, thanks for your input. I'm not proposing anything, I just think your expectations are really bad for conversations.

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                                        #207
                                        I would be very surprised if I posted a followers -only note that a non-follower could see.

                                        If I posted a globally visible note in response to a followers-only note, and only the people who could see the original note could see my response, it would make sense to me.
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                                        • Doug WadeD Doug Wade

                                          @evan I voted “Alice’s followers”, but if Bob marks their reply followers-only, it should be only the intersection of Alice and Bob’s followers.

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                                          #208

                                          @dougwade so, in a long conversation, the set of people who can read it gets smaller and smaller?

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