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  3. It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

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  • Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
    Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
    Neil Brown
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    It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

    Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

    Neil BrownN Alex HyettA RetR Tony HoyleT PaulP 19 Replies Last reply
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    • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

      It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

      Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
      Neil Brown
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      #2

      Every time I mention this, at least one man pops up to say that they would not want to follow a woman who chooses to restrict replies.

      So here, I have covered it in advance πŸ™‚

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      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

        It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

        Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

        Alex HyettA This user is from outside of this forum
        Alex HyettA This user is from outside of this forum
        Alex Hyett
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        #3

        @neil that would be perfect. An β€œonly allow replies from people you follow” option would help so much.

        Maria Langer | πŸ“πŸ’ŽπŸŒ΅πŸ›₯️M 1 Reply Last reply
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        • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

          It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

          Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

          RetR This user is from outside of this forum
          RetR This user is from outside of this forum
          Ret
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          #4

          @neil I’d really like that feature too. Reply guys be damned, some things are just… better without two way comms.

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          • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

            Every time I mention this, at least one man pops up to say that they would not want to follow a woman who chooses to restrict replies.

            So here, I have covered it in advance πŸ™‚

            samiamsamS This user is from outside of this forum
            samiamsamS This user is from outside of this forum
            samiamsam
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            #5

            @neil

            a problem that solves itself LOL

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            • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

              It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

              Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

              Tony HoyleT This user is from outside of this forum
              Tony HoyleT This user is from outside of this forum
              Tony Hoyle
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              #6

              @neil
              I believe there is a plan to add something like followers only, but one problem is that servers that are not upgraded to a version that supports that flag wouldn't honour it.

              Not that it's a reason not to do it, but it'll take a while before it's effective.

              Neil BrownN daltuxD LeelooL 3 Replies Last reply
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              • Tony HoyleT Tony Hoyle

                @neil
                I believe there is a plan to add something like followers only, but one problem is that servers that are not upgraded to a version that supports that flag wouldn't honour it.

                Not that it's a reason not to do it, but it'll take a while before it's effective.

                Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                Neil Brown
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                #7

                @tony Yes, indeed.

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                • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                  It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                  Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                  PaulP This user is from outside of this forum
                  PaulP This user is from outside of this forum
                  Paul
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                  #8

                  @neil I would like it as well, not so much for restricting replies to my toots but being able to see 'ah this person only wants replies from mutuals' and therefore not sending a reply which at best won't be read and at worst will annoy.

                  (I have come across accounts who want to restrict replies and there is no way to advertise this)

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                  • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                    @tony Yes, indeed.

                    Tony HoyleT This user is from outside of this forum
                    Tony HoyleT This user is from outside of this forum
                    Tony Hoyle
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                    #9

                    @neil
                    https://socialhub.activitypub.rocks/t/fep-5624-per-object-reply-control-policies/2723

                    Bit technical, but it seems good people are on it.

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                    • Tony HoyleT Tony Hoyle

                      @neil
                      I believe there is a plan to add something like followers only, but one problem is that servers that are not upgraded to a version that supports that flag wouldn't honour it.

                      Not that it's a reason not to do it, but it'll take a while before it's effective.

                      daltuxD This user is from outside of this forum
                      daltuxD This user is from outside of this forum
                      daltux
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                      #10
                      I guess it could be another fine #Snac feature, as you already can click a button to hide any post and all its present and future replies, so I believe it would not be hard to implement something like that in advance when you are posting a new activity. Then at least you could choose not to see replies... πŸ€”

                      CC: @neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk
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                      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                        It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                        Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                        Sebastian CraneS This user is from outside of this forum
                        Sebastian CraneS This user is from outside of this forum
                        Sebastian Crane
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                        @neil I don't really understand why the 'quotes' feature in Mastodon already has something like this, but basic replies don't. Seems like a missed opportunity.

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                        • Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                          Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                          Neil Brown
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                          @joriki That is visibility, not reply control.

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                          • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                            Every time I mention this, at least one man pops up to say that they would not want to follow a woman who chooses to restrict replies.

                            So here, I have covered it in advance πŸ™‚

                            CassandrichD This user is from outside of this forum
                            CassandrichD This user is from outside of this forum
                            Cassandrich
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                            #13

                            @neil Don't threaten us with a good time. πŸ˜‚

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                            • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                              It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                              Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                              Ev DelenE This user is from outside of this forum
                              Ev DelenE This user is from outside of this forum
                              Ev Delen
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                              #14

                              @neil

                              I just wanted to draw your attention to some some ways to manage the visibility of a post. Could your outline additional controls which could be established?

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                              • Ev DelenE Ev Delen

                                @neil

                                I just wanted to draw your attention to some some ways to manage the visibility of a post. Could your outline additional controls which could be established?

                                Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                Neil Brown
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                                #15

                                @evdelen As you say, that is post visibility, not reply control.

                                Maria Langer | πŸ“πŸ’ŽπŸŒ΅πŸ›₯️M 1 Reply Last reply
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                                • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                                  It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                                  Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                                  Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Edelruth, PBS Passport Holder
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                                  #16

                                  @neil

                                  There is a word filter system, which is probably not the level of control you are proposing, but it is a real-time start.

                                  I have the classic insults blocked, but, for cause, sadly.

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                                  • Tony HoyleT Tony Hoyle

                                    @neil
                                    https://socialhub.activitypub.rocks/t/fep-5624-per-object-reply-control-policies/2723

                                    Bit technical, but it seems good people are on it.

                                    Scott FeeneyG This user is from outside of this forum
                                    Scott FeeneyG This user is from outside of this forum
                                    Scott Feeney
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                                    #17

                                    @tony @neil At the end of the thread, someone mentions it got stalled for years. There's no prioritization by the Mastodon project. Another ActivityPub project, GoToSocial, went ahead and implemented it, although client support for the option is spotty.

                                    Mastodon could at least make it so blocking someone hides their reply, when viewed on your own server; that fix was already written back in 2022, and they refuse to explain why they aren't shipping it. https://github.com/mastodon/mastodon/pull/18468

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                                    • Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE Edelruth, PBS Passport Holder

                                      @neil

                                      There is a word filter system, which is probably not the level of control you are proposing, but it is a real-time start.

                                      I have the classic insults blocked, but, for cause, sadly.

                                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                      Neil Brown
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                                      #18

                                      @Edelruth Yes, I filter *a lot*.

                                      As you say, a useful, tangential, measure.

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                                      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                                        It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                                        Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                                        Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Todd Knarr
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                                        #19

                                        @neil In account settings there's a followers-only option for reply privacy. That's probably what you want.

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                                        • Todd KnarrT Todd Knarr

                                          @neil In account settings there's a followers-only option for reply privacy. That's probably what you want.

                                          Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                          Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                          Neil Brown
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                                          #20

                                          @tknarr

                                          Hmm... What setting are you thinking of here, as it doesn't ring a bell?

                                          It doesn't solve the problem completely, but being able to restrict replies to people I follow would be a great start.

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