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  3. It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

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  • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

    It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

    Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

    Sebastian CraneS This user is from outside of this forum
    Sebastian CraneS This user is from outside of this forum
    Sebastian Crane
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    #11

    @neil I don't really understand why the 'quotes' feature in Mastodon already has something like this, but basic replies don't. Seems like a missed opportunity.

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    • Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
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      #12

      @joriki That is visibility, not reply control.

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      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

        Every time I mention this, at least one man pops up to say that they would not want to follow a woman who chooses to restrict replies.

        So here, I have covered it in advance πŸ™‚

        CassandrichD This user is from outside of this forum
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        #13

        @neil Don't threaten us with a good time. πŸ˜‚

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        • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

          It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

          Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

          Ev DelenE This user is from outside of this forum
          Ev DelenE This user is from outside of this forum
          Ev Delen
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          #14

          @neil

          I just wanted to draw your attention to some some ways to manage the visibility of a post. Could your outline additional controls which could be established?

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          • Ev DelenE Ev Delen

            @neil

            I just wanted to draw your attention to some some ways to manage the visibility of a post. Could your outline additional controls which could be established?

            Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
            Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
            Neil Brown
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            #15

            @evdelen As you say, that is post visibility, not reply control.

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            • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

              It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

              Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

              Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE This user is from outside of this forum
              Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE This user is from outside of this forum
              Edelruth, PBS Passport Holder
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              #16

              @neil

              There is a word filter system, which is probably not the level of control you are proposing, but it is a real-time start.

              I have the classic insults blocked, but, for cause, sadly.

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              • Tony HoyleT Tony Hoyle

                @neil
                https://socialhub.activitypub.rocks/t/fep-5624-per-object-reply-control-policies/2723

                Bit technical, but it seems good people are on it.

                Scott FeeneyG This user is from outside of this forum
                Scott FeeneyG This user is from outside of this forum
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                #17

                @tony @neil At the end of the thread, someone mentions it got stalled for years. There's no prioritization by the Mastodon project. Another ActivityPub project, GoToSocial, went ahead and implemented it, although client support for the option is spotty.

                Mastodon could at least make it so blocking someone hides their reply, when viewed on your own server; that fix was already written back in 2022, and they refuse to explain why they aren't shipping it. https://github.com/mastodon/mastodon/pull/18468

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                • Edelruth, PBS Passport HolderE Edelruth, PBS Passport Holder

                  @neil

                  There is a word filter system, which is probably not the level of control you are proposing, but it is a real-time start.

                  I have the classic insults blocked, but, for cause, sadly.

                  Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                  Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                  Neil Brown
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                  #18

                  @Edelruth Yes, I filter *a lot*.

                  As you say, a useful, tangential, measure.

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                  • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                    It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                    Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                    Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                    Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                    Todd Knarr
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                    #19

                    @neil In account settings there's a followers-only option for reply privacy. That's probably what you want.

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                    • Todd KnarrT Todd Knarr

                      @neil In account settings there's a followers-only option for reply privacy. That's probably what you want.

                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                      Neil Brown
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                      #20

                      @tknarr

                      Hmm... What setting are you thinking of here, as it doesn't ring a bell?

                      It doesn't solve the problem completely, but being able to restrict replies to people I follow would be a great start.

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                      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                        @tknarr

                        Hmm... What setting are you thinking of here, as it doesn't ring a bell?

                        It doesn't solve the problem completely, but being able to restrict replies to people I follow would be a great start.

                        Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                        Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                        Neil Brown
                        wrote last edited by
                        #21

                        @tknarr

                        Ah, reply privacy, being the visibility level attached to a reply I make.

                        No, that is something completely different to controlling what replies I allow to my toots.

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                        • Tony HoyleT Tony Hoyle

                          @neil
                          I believe there is a plan to add something like followers only, but one problem is that servers that are not upgraded to a version that supports that flag wouldn't honour it.

                          Not that it's a reason not to do it, but it'll take a while before it's effective.

                          LeelooL This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #22

                          @tony @neil
                          That problem exists for the whole protocol, though. A server can equally well ignore "mentioned only" and show the post on their "local" feed if it wants to.

                          Thus the problem doesn't prevent implementing the feature any more than it prevents the whole fediverse.

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                          • Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                            Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
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                            @Natasha_Jay

                            Yes, exactly!

                            And, sure, people can follow whomever they want too.

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                            • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                              @tknarr

                              Ah, reply privacy, being the visibility level attached to a reply I make.

                              No, that is something completely different to controlling what replies I allow to my toots.

                              Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                              Todd KnarrT This user is from outside of this forum
                              Todd Knarr
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                              #24

                              @neil Huh. I thought there was a separate one for replies to your post, not your replies. Sorry, apparently I was wrong.

                              I also don't see anything for limiting visibiility to only those you follow, only to followers. There's an option whether or not to auto-approve followers, you can turn that off to give you control over who can follow you. That seems to be as far as it goes.

                              Going to add my voice to the requests for more reply privacy options.

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                              • Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                Neil Brown
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                                #25

                                @curiousbadger Indeed 😞

                                And this is a (predominantly) men thing, not a tech thing.

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                                • Todd KnarrT Todd Knarr

                                  @neil Huh. I thought there was a separate one for replies to your post, not your replies. Sorry, apparently I was wrong.

                                  I also don't see anything for limiting visibiility to only those you follow, only to followers. There's an option whether or not to auto-approve followers, you can turn that off to give you control over who can follow you. That seems to be as far as it goes.

                                  Going to add my voice to the requests for more reply privacy options.

                                  Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Neil Brown
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                                  #26

                                  @tknarr It's all good πŸ™‚

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                                  • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                                    It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                                    Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

                                    Signor Q. 🦩E This user is from outside of this forum
                                    Signor Q. 🦩E This user is from outside of this forum
                                    Signor Q. 🦩
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                                    #27

                                    @neil Can you in RL control who`s replying to words you said?

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                                    • Signor Q. 🦩E Signor Q. 🦩

                                      @neil Can you in RL control who`s replying to words you said?

                                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                      Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #28

                                      @electricfusionQ

                                      RL?

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                                      • Neil BrownN Neil Brown

                                        @electricfusionQ

                                        RL?

                                        Signor Q. 🦩E This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Signor Q. 🦩E This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Signor Q. 🦩
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                                        #29

                                        @neil real life

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                                        • Signor Q. 🦩E Signor Q. 🦩

                                          @neil real life

                                          Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                          Neil BrownN This user is from outside of this forum
                                          Neil Brown
                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #30

                                          @electricfusionQ

                                          This is real life?

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