Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
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@alice is there a negative scale?
turned off
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@amiserabilist @alice Agree with the world on this
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@amiserabilist @alice Agree with the world on this
@Kierkegaanks @amiserabilist @alice
My doppelgΓ€nger said he wasnβt interested in me
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice yes.
When I dress as I like I want to be as sexy as possible to the eyes of the others, with my personal taste. And the persons I like to fuck most are the ones that dress like me.
So if I'd be someone else, I would like to be and fuck... me.
(Trying to explain the best what I have in my mind
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice
My demi-ness says a day is too short to become interested in anyone. I need weeks at best. -
@DodoTheDev
Yaaaaaaassss, love hearing this! Learning to like (much less love) your body is hard AF and I'm stoked that you've found someone who made you believe it!@gairdeachas
Thank you. Its a work in progress, but I'm getting there. Although it shouldn't, external validation helps. But I'm also working on my internal self view and its finally starting to take
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice Yes, 'I'm too sexy for my hand'
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice@lgbtqia.space can't answer the poll because thans people don't get man/woman options here. (masc or femme does not cut it, sorry) anyway, sometimes if i don't get dysphoric.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice may I also add that I'm OLD and my days of being "sexy" are well and truly behind me π€ͺ
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@alice that's not a rephrasing though. That's a different question.
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice Questions like these β e.g. "Do you like yourself?" β always really baffle me because the premise is so alien to the way I experience myself and the world, i.e. I don't experience myself as external to myself: I neither like nor dislike myself, I *am* myself. Being attracted to myself, being turned on by my own body/presentation, liking myself β these modes of experience *categorically* don't make sense to me.
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@alice that's not a rephrasing though. That's a different question.
@alice @pdcawley Yeah! I have occasionally got turned on looking at myself, but I would never want to fuck myself. I got turned on because my subconscious was like "wow I might actually be attractive, better activate biological mechanisms that prepare my body for having sex." Not "wow what a sexy woman behind that glass, I sure want to have sex with her."
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Do you ever get turned on by your own body/presentation?
Pick the answer that best represents your current gender expression and orientation.
@alice
Ummβ¦.maybe if I had a mochi minky pajamasβ¦also I may have an intimate encounter with myselfβ¦ it depends I mean even if you shoot two identical twins out they experience time differently life differently, so I have no idea if my other half would be attracted to me, I doubt it, if we were a hive mind stuff could be boring. Idk thereβs simply too many things and we ourselves are simply too many things for me to calculate all that and say for sure. -
Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice
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Now I'm curious how different the answers would be if I'd phrased the question as "If you could be someone else for a day, and had the opportunity to, would you fuck yourself?"
@alice *keeps laughying in plural system.*
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@alice
Ehm... honestly? That is an interesting question. Wow. I think I might not, but now I have to think about why I wouldn't and if I could do anything different to make me more want to fuck myself.That is one kind of self-reflection I want and also don't want to talk to my therapist about.
@momo I asked my (very cishet) mom a (watered down) version of this question, and she was like "eww, no".
Apparently she likes penises, and body hair, and boy-smell, and such.
Though she shaves her body, wears makeup and perfume, and dresses feminine.
And it blew my mind that you'd want to make yourself less attractive to yourself.
I mean, I haven't always found myself attractive, even though I know a lot of other folx did, but I've always worked to make myself more attractive *to me*. It took a lot of unlearning toxic shit, but now that I can find myself attractive, I *wish* I'd gotten here so much sooner.
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@alice β¦Well, if I were someone else I wouldn't be *me*, would I? It feels a bit like a cop-out answer, but I really can't say what decisions I'd make if I suddenly had a whole different brain chemistry to deal with.
(There's not nearly enough fiction that addresses that sort of thing. I guess neurotypical people don't really think much about how *physical* their brains are? But insofar as our minds are intangible, that "software" is still affected by the "hardware" it runs onβ¦)
@pandabutter I would've said a copy of yourself, a clone, and alternate reality version of you, etc, but any wording I used would invite some percentage of people to be like "well that changes everything"
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