@iftas @admin and that's great! I even think that the development of "neighborhoods" on ActivityPub fedi is "working as intended" and likely a good thing, albeit messy as you say.
what I'm saying is that should any organized push toward allow-list federation on big general-purpose instances develop - which would disempower the vast long tail of self-hosters and tiny instances (say, 10 active users or less) and threaten to cut us off from our friends - it will meet with resistance. that's all.