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  3. If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • salguod, man  🍂🍁 lazysupperL salguod, man 🍂🍁 lazysupper

    @dahukanna
    Oh... I need to change my answer. 😅
    Other: the dark blue-grey.
    @evan

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    #213

    @lazysupper @dahukanna so, in a long conversation, the number of people who can see the responses gets smaller and smaller over time?

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    • BuckRogers1965B BuckRogers1965

      @evan

      Just visible to Alice unless she accepts the post. And she controls the visibility on her posts.

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      @BuckRogers1965 have you tried the ActivityPub plugin for WordPress? This is how it works; absolutely great stuff.

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      • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

        @lazysupper @dahukanna so, in a long conversation, the number of people who can see the responses gets smaller and smaller over time?

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        #215

        @evan
        Yes. I initially thought that's a problem. But it respects the privacy wishes of the respondents. But ideally most of the conversation will occur within the overlap.

        If Dave knows Alice and Bob but hates Chad, he shouldn't be excluded from the conversation just because Chad's a jerk. And he shouldn't need to reveal his reponses to Chad, just because Alice and Bob tolerate Chad.

        @dahukanna

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        • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

          If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

          #EvanPoll #poll

          Sergio LimaO This user is from outside of this forum
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          wrote last edited by
          #216
          @evan ToAlice, but visible to followers of both.
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          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

            If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

            #EvanPoll #poll

            BodlingB This user is from outside of this forum
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            #217

            @evan Carol and Ted clearly need to be looped in

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            • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

              @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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              #218

              @evan @maj But Bob may want to reply something that he doesn't want to divulge to all of Alice's followers (he likely doesn't know them all) so he may want to explicitly shrink the set to the intersection

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              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                @jmcclure you're forgiven!

                The poll is not mandatory, so please feel free to spend your one wild and precious life doing something different.

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                #219

                @evan

                Huh?

                I'm sorry I encroached on your poll without your invitation. I saw it, it looked interesting, so I submitted my vote and explained my "other" as requested.

                If you didn't want to hear people's thoughts, don't ask for them.

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                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                  If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                  #EvanPoll #poll

                  Pau AmmaP This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #220

                  @evan You asked "should", not "does", so my answer is "only people who follow *both* Alice and Bob", that is, the intersection of both sets of followers. (Your 3rd option, to me, reads like "people who follow *either*", that is, the union.)

                  Whether Alice-only follower Carol (resp. Bob-only follower Dave) should gain access to Bob's reply by following Bob (resp. Alice) after Bob's reply is unclear to me.

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                  • Evan ProdromouE This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @TomAoki @maj third item is the union.

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                    • Pau AmmaP Pau Amma

                      @evan You asked "should", not "does", so my answer is "only people who follow *both* Alice and Bob", that is, the intersection of both sets of followers. (Your 3rd option, to me, reads like "people who follow *either*", that is, the union.)

                      Whether Alice-only follower Carol (resp. Bob-only follower Dave) should gain access to Bob's reply by following Bob (resp. Alice) after Bob's reply is unclear to me.

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                      wrote last edited by
                      #222

                      @pauamma so, the audience for replies gets smaller and smaller as the conversation grows?

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                      • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                        If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                        #EvanPoll #poll

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                        @evan

                        Intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.

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                        • bjb :devuannew: :emacs:B bjb :devuannew: :emacs:

                          @evan

                          Intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.

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                          @bjb so a smaller and smaller audience as the conversation goes on? Eventually too small to keep the conversation up?

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                          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                            @bjb so a smaller and smaller audience as the conversation goes on? Eventually too small to keep the conversation up?

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                            @evan

                            Yep. If there are people that Bob's not interested in, Bob should not have to deal with them.

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                            • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                              If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                              #EvanPoll #poll

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                              #226

                              @evan What about Ted and Carol's followers?

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                              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                #EvanPoll #poll

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                                @evan
                                Please help me, my friend, I desperately need you 🙏

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                                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                  @pauamma so, the audience for replies gets smaller and smaller as the conversation grows?

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                                  @evan Good question. I'd have to think about it more, but my hot take is "it depends a lot on context". (Consider for instance that Bob may be Alice's stalkery ex.)

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                                  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                    If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                    #EvanPoll #poll

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                                    #229

                                    Hey, all. So, I appreciate the responses. I'll break down the options here.

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                                    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                      Hey, all. So, I appreciate the responses. I'll break down the options here.

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                                      #230

                                      "Alice's followers" is the way most social networks work with private X, Facebook, Instagram. It lets Alice ask questions or share private info with people she trusts and cares about, and lets them discuss amongst themselves. It is really the best way to use social networks.

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                                      • Stefan BohacekS Stefan Bohacek

                                        @evan Sure!

                                        Does this wording make sense?

                                        When you post a followers-only post, who do you expect replies from?

                                        My own followers (MOF)
                                        MOF + repliers' followers (RF)
                                        Mutual MOF + RF only
                                        Something else?

                                        (Trying to be concise!)

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                                        #231

                                        @evan Well I went ahead, if you're interested:

                                        https://stefanbohacek.online/@stefan/116035954117881295

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                                        • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                          "Alice's followers" is the way most social networks work with private X, Facebook, Instagram. It lets Alice ask questions or share private info with people she trusts and cares about, and lets them discuss amongst themselves. It is really the best way to use social networks.

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                                          "Bob's followers" is the literalist version, with the worst possible dynamics. "You should reply to a followers-only post with a followers-only post" retains the same UI choice while completely changing the audience. Most of the other people who read Alice's post won't see Bob's comments. Bob's followers who don't follow Alice won't understand the context of his post, and won't be able to read Alice's post. It also violates Alice's privacy to share a response to her question with strangers.

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