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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

    @ori

    I don't think it breaks expectations.

    It's also the way most social networks work. If the OP posts privately, all the comments and replies to comments are visible to *all* the OP's followers.

    This is how Facebook, Instagram, and X all work.

    They let you have private conversations with people that matter to you. It's one of the best parts of those platforms.

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    #203
    Well, you asked what expectations were, and I told you. They're not what you seem to be proposing. Not sure what else to say.
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    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

      #EvanPoll #poll

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      #204

      @evan what I'd prefer to make are mutuals-only posts

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      • oriO ori
        Well, you asked what expectations were, and I told you. They're not what you seem to be proposing. Not sure what else to say.
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        #205

        @ori cool, thanks for your input. I'm not proposing anything, I just think your expectations are really bad for conversations.

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        • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

          If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

          #EvanPoll #poll

          Doug WadeD This user is from outside of this forum
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          wrote last edited by
          #206

          @evan I voted “Alice’s followers”, but if Bob marks their reply followers-only, it should be only the intersection of Alice and Bob’s followers.

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          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

            @ori cool, thanks for your input. I'm not proposing anything, I just think your expectations are really bad for conversations.

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            wrote last edited by
            #207
            I would be very surprised if I posted a followers -only note that a non-follower could see.

            If I posted a globally visible note in response to a followers-only note, and only the people who could see the original note could see my response, it would make sense to me.
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            • Doug WadeD Doug Wade

              @evan I voted “Alice’s followers”, but if Bob marks their reply followers-only, it should be only the intersection of Alice and Bob’s followers.

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              #208

              @dougwade so, in a long conversation, the set of people who can read it gets smaller and smaller?

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              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                @dougwade so, in a long conversation, the set of people who can read it gets smaller and smaller?

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                #209

                @evan I think so. I think in an ideal world, I would prefer an audience that expands, but in the real world where people use followers-only to feel safe online, it is important that only followers appear downstream of a followers-only post. At least, that’s what I would expect absent some other cue.

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                • oriO ori
                  I would be very surprised if I posted a followers -only note that a non-follower could see.

                  If I posted a globally visible note in response to a followers-only note, and only the people who could see the original note could see my response, it would make sense to me.
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                  @ori I think this is where I got on the merry-go-round.

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                  • Dawn AhukannaD Dawn Ahukanna

                    @evan
                    It should be visible to the original set as Alice shared the post with her followers, not followers of followers (light blue segment of set diagram). Any of Bob’s followers that also follow Alice will see the post and replies anyway. See comments on set diagram and post about the set theory maths/model - https://mastodon.social/@dahukanna/116030140984675453

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                    #211

                    @dahukanna
                    Oh... I need to change my answer. 😅
                    Other: the dark blue-grey.
                    @evan

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                    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                      #EvanPoll #poll

                      BuckRogers1965B This user is from outside of this forum
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                      wrote last edited by
                      #212

                      @evan

                      Just visible to Alice unless she accepts the post. And she controls the visibility on her posts.

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                      • salguod, man  🍂🍁 lazysupperL salguod, man 🍂🍁 lazysupper

                        @dahukanna
                        Oh... I need to change my answer. 😅
                        Other: the dark blue-grey.
                        @evan

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                        #213

                        @lazysupper @dahukanna so, in a long conversation, the number of people who can see the responses gets smaller and smaller over time?

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                        • BuckRogers1965B BuckRogers1965

                          @evan

                          Just visible to Alice unless she accepts the post. And she controls the visibility on her posts.

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                          #214

                          @BuckRogers1965 have you tried the ActivityPub plugin for WordPress? This is how it works; absolutely great stuff.

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                          • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                            @lazysupper @dahukanna so, in a long conversation, the number of people who can see the responses gets smaller and smaller over time?

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                            @evan
                            Yes. I initially thought that's a problem. But it respects the privacy wishes of the respondents. But ideally most of the conversation will occur within the overlap.

                            If Dave knows Alice and Bob but hates Chad, he shouldn't be excluded from the conversation just because Chad's a jerk. And he shouldn't need to reveal his reponses to Chad, just because Alice and Bob tolerate Chad.

                            @dahukanna

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                            • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                              If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                              #EvanPoll #poll

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                              Sergio Lima
                              wrote last edited by
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                              @evan ToAlice, but visible to followers of both.
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                              • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                #EvanPoll #poll

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                                @evan Carol and Ted clearly need to be looped in

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                                • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                  @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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                                  #218

                                  @evan @maj But Bob may want to reply something that he doesn't want to divulge to all of Alice's followers (he likely doesn't know them all) so he may want to explicitly shrink the set to the intersection

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                                  • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                    @jmcclure you're forgiven!

                                    The poll is not mandatory, so please feel free to spend your one wild and precious life doing something different.

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                                    #219

                                    @evan

                                    Huh?

                                    I'm sorry I encroached on your poll without your invitation. I saw it, it looked interesting, so I submitted my vote and explained my "other" as requested.

                                    If you didn't want to hear people's thoughts, don't ask for them.

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                                    • Evan ProdromouE Evan Prodromou

                                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                      #EvanPoll #poll

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                                      #220

                                      @evan You asked "should", not "does", so my answer is "only people who follow *both* Alice and Bob", that is, the intersection of both sets of followers. (Your 3rd option, to me, reads like "people who follow *either*", that is, the union.)

                                      Whether Alice-only follower Carol (resp. Bob-only follower Dave) should gain access to Bob's reply by following Bob (resp. Alice) after Bob's reply is unclear to me.

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                                        #221

                                        @TomAoki @maj third item is the union.

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                                        • Pau AmmaP Pau Amma

                                          @evan You asked "should", not "does", so my answer is "only people who follow *both* Alice and Bob", that is, the intersection of both sets of followers. (Your 3rd option, to me, reads like "people who follow *either*", that is, the union.)

                                          Whether Alice-only follower Carol (resp. Bob-only follower Dave) should gain access to Bob's reply by following Bob (resp. Alice) after Bob's reply is unclear to me.

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                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #222

                                          @pauamma so, the audience for replies gets smaller and smaller as the conversation grows?

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